Cheated on my fiancee & now she wants to move miles away with our son. What !
Question: Cheated on my fiancee & now she wants to move miles away with our son. What do i do?
Answers:
You have to first find out if your relationship can be saved. If so, you need to reconcile, it may take some time. I would give her a couple of days to calm down. You can use this time to think of something extremely nice to do for her. You may find it useful to go to couples counseling together, and let it all out. If she will not talk to you, write her a very warm letter, then give her a day or two. If you do not hear from her, then you should call her.
I am no expert, but it worked for me.
The only thing you can do is fight for shared custody of your son. You can't make her take you back. She may still love you but that doesn't mean she wants you back. Trust is lost. Respect is lost. And even when you love someone you can't let them treat you bad.
invent the time machine, go back in time and kill your friend so he can't turn 30. then you will never meet the girl again
not being a ****
Yeah, you should have kept it in your pants. She's right to move away from you, although you're going to have to go to court over her moving to CA with your son. A person is permitted to bring their child on "vacation" up to a month in another state. Anything beyond that is considered kidnapping. You can work out an agreement - where your son can be with both of you...but just to let you know, a judge isn't going to look at you in favor if he or she finds out that the reason why you're splitting is because you cheated.