Would witnessing anger as a child cause one to be angry?!
Question: Would witnessing anger as a child cause one to be angry?
I was thinking of writing a letter to him but Idk where to start.
Answers:
Domestic violence can leave big scars on your heart as a child, someone become violence because of traumatic experience. I was actually pretty violence as a child myself, since my mother hit, screamed at me, strangled me, violence was a form for defense for me.
I think the first thing you need to do is to get help, you need someone to talk to.
I hope things will get better for you.
Experienced it myself
Witnessing adults dealing with their problems by getting angry and abusive may lead you to learn to deal with your problems by getting angry. I would say if you're 19, you can decide for yourself if you want to have any sort of relationship with your father. As for the letter... You are the only person who can possibly decide what to write.
Tell your favorite teacher about the abuse only-nothing more. I can call cps or counsel your mom etc.
1st of all, maybe you think people/parents can talk anyway they see fit each day. Turns out many parents are abusers. Actually they are not trying to be tough to make you better or help- they are tricking you. This goes for people at school as well. Words are abuse also.
There are 3 types of abusive people/parents. Some hit the bottle. Some hit you. And some run their mouths and put you down. THEY are sick and feel great on being mean, and thats the only reason they do it. They are wrong about everything. The typical abuser is close-minded, self-righteous and was also abused themself. Use defense and read many sites on verbal abuse etc. People tear you down to build themselves up. Youre being abused - Its their problem. Knowledge is power.
Abuse causes pain mistaken as Mental Problems. BP OCD etc. Psychiatrists commit fraud and all disorders are a hoax. For chemical imbalances NO test exists. You dont have what shrinks say you have. Dont tell anyone about your so called disorder. They will only drug you.
Jesus name and forgiving others who are wrong is important along with avoiding them.
Contact- Child Protective Services- Transitional help to age 21- tell your teacher. Dont tell your parents they wont listen.
Learn the truth, forgive, and Get Away from them. Read many many sites under "emotional abuse" and "dealing with bullies".
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Experience with people feeling better on a repeated basis.