Life, im really confused on who I really am?!


Question: Life, im really confused on who I really am?
I've never had this proble before, untill i switched schools over the summer. I only have a few friends here, and i barely talk. I always feel the same emotion, i pretend to be happy even though im not. I haven't really laughed and really smilled for 10 months. i just pretend.
I dont always feel depressed. its really hard for me to trust people.(becuase my dad left and ran off with my moms best friend and is now married to her)
I honestly dont know who i am. when i think back to my old school/life i was happy and always smilling and laughing. I always fit in, and was friends with every one.
I just dont know who i am?
Im confused with all my thoughts and feelings?
any advice would be greatly apreciated:)


Also im 14

Answers:

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I am 14 years old also and used to have this same problem. Some things I found helpful during this time were yelling when nobody else was around, reading books that held a lot of emotions, and writing deep thoughts that occurred to me. Like you, this problem happened when I switched schools. I don't have this problem anymore because I convinced my parents to let me switch schools again, and I found one that fit me better. The people there are friendly and welcoming and trustworthy. I don't know if the same solution would work for you, but I hope this helps! Your situation is not a fun one to be in.



Well for starters I know its hard making new friends and I know how you feel about your dad because my mom is divorcing him and he drinks and smokes ever since he was 13 years old ; But anyways what Im trying to say is do not let anybody push you down I know its not easy to fit in just find someone who you can truly express your feelings too and who understands what your going through Good Luck. ( :




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