I am very insecure.. Help please?!


Question: I am very insecure.. Help please?
I have always been called ugly... I hate it! I sometimes wish I was never even born... I don't wanna die or kill myself EVER! But I just have always felt ugly and have been called ugly.. I always cry myself to sleep. I know I sound dramatic but its true... I just want someone to make me feel good, you know?

thanks

Answers:

First of all no one is as ugly inside as the folk who say that to you. Second, as hard as it seems, you need to block out other peoples negative voices, and start you own positive voice. If you talk down to yourself in your mind, than its easy to see why you are insecure. You need to stick up for yourself emotionally. Thoughts are sooo very powerful. The negative ones and the positive ones. Remind yourself of what you are good at, what your strengths are. Be an advocate for your own self worth. And if you really feel that your looks could use some help, do something. Get a new hairstyle. Start working out, go to a makeup artist who will show you tips and tricks to play up your good features and play down your not so good ones. I was accused of being an ugly tomboy, and you know what I see pictures of myself when I was younger, i kinda agree. Then i discovered makeup! and tweezers to shape my brows, and a hairstyle that works with my hair type. Chill out, we are all a little uncomfortable in our own skin every now and then. But you need to change the negative into positive.

ex ugly tomboy who now sometimes is refered to as hot. lol



Self talk can help. You have to love yourself for who you are before anyone else can see how beautiful you really are. Try looking at yourself in the mirror everyday and say one positive thing about yourself. I am sure there are many! Another option could be seeking out a counselor or therapist to help. Talk to your parents or another trusted adult about how you feel. You sound like a strong person and you will get through this one day at a time.
Counselor EJ

yourlifeyourvoice.org



Don't let things like that get you down, people call you ugly because they want attention.



Flaws are beautiful.



i always feel that too.. just be positive in life u can overcome it..
focus on Ur assets not on your flaws..




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