Attachment issues or mental sickness?!


Question: Attachment issues or mental sickness?
So, I'm kind of in love with this guy. I have been since like, June. He hasn't talked to me since Sunday night and I feel like the world is crashing down around me. I see him on Facebook, on the internet, etc. I'm seriously depressed as hell, can't concentrate one bit, and I think I'm going insane. Do you think I have some sort of attachment disorder...? Or is this normal? Please tell me, ugh. ;_; If it helps, I've been prescribed to anti-depressants before..don't know if that makes me more prone to something of this nature or not.

Answers:

Its young love, total normal. Don't work yourself up about it. If you find yourself stalking him, making hair dolls out of hair you stole from his brush, or doing other wacky thinks, then you might have issues, for now...its a common case of infatuation



My advice? STOP RUNNING AROUND LOOKING FOR ANSWERS.

You like control. A lot. You are insecure. A lot. You want to feel attention, hence your emotional/mental status.

I don't think you're depressed. I do think you are unhealthy though. I think you need to work through these insecurities with a professional and realize that you have a world outside of a relationship. You NEED to have a life beyond just this guy. This guy needs to have a life too.

Honestly, you could even be showing narcissistic tendencies since this is all about YOU and how YOU are feeling.

Basically, it all boils down to insecurities. If you can't work through them, no relationship is going to work out for them. Oh and FYI - no medication can solve this one.



It's normal, but he's just not that into you. It's not the meds. Redirect yourself to another productive activity. YES I KNOW it won't be easy, but what's the alternative?




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