Whats wrong with me?? PLEASE HELP ME.. :/ i know its long but i really need help!


Question: Whats wrong with me?? PLEASE HELP ME.. :/ i know its long but i really need help.? ?
im a 15 year old girl, and i think i might be depressed, or just have problems. im living a good life. i have all the things i could ever want, but for some reason, it seems like theres something missing, and its making me depressed. my mom yells at me alot, and over the year, ive changed so much. im a freshmen, so its kind of like im trying to find who i am. at the beginning of the year, i was loud, and crazy, and fun, but now, im slowly getting quieter, and more reserved. i dont tell anyone anything, and over the weekends i just go to parties, make out with boys, smoke pot, and drink. but like, im always SO sad. usually when im alone at home, and ive cut myself before, and i sometimes have thoughts about wanting to end my life. i never like anyone either, after a breakup type of thing, about a year ago, i havent liked one single person, just no one was interesting to me. i feel so lonely, even though i have so many friends. i turn to guys and doing things with guys for it to feel like someone cares about me, and people tell me i shouldnt, but i dont listen. I feel like I'm going crazy, or somethings wrong, but nothings really wrong. And the feeling is starting to eat at me, and bother me, and really make me messed up.. I feel like I need to tell or talk to someone, but I have really hard times trusting people and I wouldn't know how to explain this.. Should I see a therapist?

i hate the people i should love, and love the people i should hate..
Btw, I'm not looking for a lecture on how drugs and partying, etc, are bad.
whats wrong with me?! please help me..

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You really do need to see a therapist, counselor, psychiatrist, someone. You probably wouldn't feel great about talking to your parents, but you don't need to tell them all the details. Talking with them about how you are feeling, rather than what you are doing may help. Of course, I have no idea how your relationship is with them.

Everyone gets depressed but it sounds as though you are experiencing clinical depression, which usually needs treatment to get better. That can be therapy, medication, or both. Clinical depression is extremely common, and having it doesn't make you crazy.

I won't give you a lecture on partying, drugs, or casual sex, because you express that you know your behavior is destructive. You are pretty much an adult and I won't talk down to you. I am more concerned that you continue to engage these activities despite knowing that it isn't helping. Add cutting and thoughts of suicide and I'm pretty concerned.

No one can make everything all better, or even claim with treatment that you will be happy. But I can promise that you can feel a whole lot better than you do right now. Please don't try to get through this alone and make an appointment to see a professional.

I wish you all the best.

Psychiatrist (and being treated for depression myself)



See ur doctor as he can possibly diagnose anti depressants, which pretty much get rid of the symptoms..
or see a counsellor/psychologist as they can help you find ways to deal with what you're feeling and maybe why you're feeling like this.



all i can think of to tell you is that i will pray for you and maybe you should see your school councelor.im sorry about the way you feel.:( God bless you:)



Will you email this address, please. Been there-I can tell you the answer. Im praying for you too.

Sorry, blessedgirl20@yahoo.com



Not the advice you probably want to hear but, at least listen to it. Do yourself a favor and find a way to volunteer in your city, especially with kids or elderly. Helping others and being needed has a strange way of making you feel like you're here for some reason. There's a kid out there who has no one to look up to and there's an elderly person who probably led a proud and caring life who the rest of the world abandoned. Regardless, you need to find someone who is responsible enough to be straight with you to bounce your thoughts off of. Hope it helps. Be safe. Time heals everything. Be selfless and help someone. It could change your life... Or at least your perspective of it.




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