Why do I um..."pleasure myself" in sleep? O.O?!
Question: Why do I um..."pleasure myself" in sleep? O.O?
Anyway, I always dream of having orgasms, and I woke up several times only to find myself.... uh ... "stimulating" THAT area...
I want it to go away, because one of these days my parents might catch me and I would def. Die of embarassment!!!
Can someone tell me why this is happening and how I can stop it?
OH! And I almsot forgot to mention that it happens worse when Im on my period and after it ends. Sorry for the TMI.
Answers:
not sure why you're slepping with parents, any parents, at 21; that may be part of ur problem. At the least, you oughta be in ur own bed. Better yet, there's nothing wrong with stimulating yourself, but maybe you should let someone help you.
Sounds like u have a lot of pent up desire and sexual urge. That probably needs releasing. If you don't want to rush into a relationshipn or boyfriend, at least go to a bed of your own, or in the shower behind locked doors and have a good long masturbation. Let yourself go, and if you're alone at home, moan and pant and groan to the most you want. Girlfriend let yourself go.
(Btw: anybody who has slept in the same bed more than 1 night prob noticed; they ought to have urged you to a seperate bed long ago).
...hope this helps some.
First of all. I'm wondering why you're still sleeping in the bed with your parents at 21. You should be sleeping on a sofa or futon if you have no bed. Masturbation is normal. That is something that is "private". Most of the time masturbation happens with curious teens or someone who's not being sexually satisfied. The real solution to your problem is to grow up and get your own room. You need to sleep by yourself before you move out own your own. Sorry if I sound harsh.The truth is hard to face some times.
A mature adult.
Lol. That's hot.
ANYWAYS.
Start doing it when your awake, get laid, you obviously have subconscious urges so you need to start acting on them, nothing wrong with it, it's all human nature.
go out and get laid? or masturbate when your parents are out. orrrrrrrrr get your own bed. why on earth are you sharing with parents at 21?????????????????
overall, to me you just sound horny, so do something about it ;)
yeah I sometimes stay in my mom's room at times, but I don't share a bed thats doesn't sound okay. I would consider buying a bed first before moving and I would talk to a doctor about your problem.
Pleasuring yourself in your sleep is not a problem - in fact it's normal. What IS a problem, however, is you still sleeping in your parent's bed at 21. Nearly all children stop sleeping in their parents bed when they are very very young. This is worrying. When do your parents get any privacy? Just how big is this bed for three adults?
You may have heard of wet dreams which is when men ejaculate in their sleep. Something similar happens to women, especially when they are not sexually active. If you are not sexually active and do not masturbate then your body will release these pent-up feelings naturally - and that's in your sleep. Many women find themselves having orgasms in their sleep. Some report that they were not touching themselves whilst others have been.
It's normal and natural. You don't let it need to worry you but you really need to sleep elsewhere. If you stop sharing a bed with your parents then what you do in bed - asleep or otherwise - won't matter.