I feel like I should kill myself?!


Question: I feel like I should kill myself?
At school, I have a crush and I never see him anymore. Only one second every WEEK. I asked to change my schedule so I could be in his class but that only make it WORSE. Now on Tuesday im going back to school to get my schedule and I don't even wanna o to school anymore. I just don't wanna be here anymore. Help?

Answers:

Honey, please do not kill yourself. Life can be tough, especially in school, especially with boys. BELIEVE me, I was there. I thought I was right in refusing to seek help, but I can tell you that you really should speak to a professional if you are feeling this strongly about these things. It doesn't mean you're crazy or unstable or anything, everyone needs help sometimes. Look in your local phone book, ask a parent, but please find some help for your own sake. Yahoo Answers can only take you so far. Boys come and go, even if you feel like your life will be ruined if you lose this boy, TRUST me, you will feel SO good the day you wake up and realize you dont need him. I was THERE too. Trust me.

P.S. DON'T listen to these losers on here who say 'you have issues' or something equally immature and catty. Everyone has 'issues', and usually they are perfectly normal.



i know how you feel, i too have had such a crush it kills me to see them with others, or not being able to see them at all, during summer break i never saw this girl and it nearly killed me..

there is not much you can do, you have kinda got to ride it through, after a while i forgot and moved on, you just gotta think about al this in perspective, are they worth it? do you need them? do they know you exist? are they really that important to you that you cant survive without them?

there are plenty more fish in the sea, what i did was kept myself busy :) surround yourself with your friends, get into some sports, join clubs, just keep busy and they will slip from your mind i promise,

dont be thinking so irrationaly that you are considering suiside (spelling :/) its not worth dieing for lol.
be strong <3

experience



Having obsessions is a character of OCD, which in a larger branch, would fit with personality disorder.

Instead of having the burden where you think of your crush all the time, you may want to look into seeing a psychiatrist. He/she can diagnose what's really causing you to feel this way. You can be put on the proper medications to settle your negative thoughts.



This is not serious enough to kill yourself over. If he made fun of you or called you horrible names, I could somewhat understand your feelings. When I was 14 I wanted to kill myself (and attempted twice) but it was never over a boy not paying attention to you. This happens to everyone. Who knows, maybe there's a guy feeling the same way about you but you don't notice HIM? But then you kill yourself and then you won't ever be able to be happy again.



you sound very angry,more than suicidal so don't go in the same class as him but boy do you have issues anger management wouldn't go a miss,maybe you shouldn't have put additional details down bit of a mistake that was but on a more serious note,your a teenager right has a crush on some boy,boys not interested so you want dont want to go to school any more and you dont want to be here either,can i suggest you take up anger management it wont cure you but will help you to deal with issues you have,crushes dont normally last long anyway,



First DON"T! Ok that being said, this is a normal feeling although a very deep one. I had to put a gun to my head before I realized that I could just change...I was the one choosing to feel this way(although it seems uncontrollable, it isn't). I have waited 15 years for a girl once, I wish I could say it was worth the few times we spent together. Please realize that impatience gets us into lots of trouble, time does heal, even if not perfectly....besides shouldn't you let the boys chase you? You should be too busy enjoying your youth to wanna get involved with the drama of a boy anyways...



How old are you?

This will pass. Whether you see him or not, it will pass. Relationships come and go. People come in and out of your life. Did you ever really consider suicide, practically, or is it something you said in a moment of mental stress?

Don't be impulsive. If you rationalize this, you have little to worry about.



Its not worth killing yourself. Just think of all the good things in life. And everything else you have to live for. The other people you could meet. the fact that one day, you'll probably forget about this boy, and you'll end up married in a happy home! Look on the bright side. Things will always get better!!!

Hang in there!!

hope this helps! Good luck!!! :)



1-800-273-8255

Call that number right now. Please.
It WILL get better, trust me. School and crushes suck, but things will always get better!



Listen to a soothing song, don't worry it'll be alright...



"Attention, attention, I need attention!" <--- Thats all you had to say.

wow, you need bigger fish to fry. What are you in 6th grade?



f you lose your life you will not know what will happen the next day, the death Leave it to God.



Wow. You have some issues.



Chill outtt. !
you kinda seem likee you wanna stalk his life..
/:



Yess do it, what a dumba**




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