What makes some girls worth getting treated good and others like crap?!
Question: What makes some girls worth getting treated good and others like crap?
I live up north and he lives down south. He abandoned me when I was pregnant, pushed me to have an abortion with threats and then spent months telling me he was sorry and wanted to hold me and listen to me talk about what I was feeling I got on a plane to head 17 hrs away to him down south and he decided to turn off his phone and I was literally stranded alone in his state for the wk end.
Now he is very nice and respectful to other women. There's this 19 yr old girl with half naked pics all over her facebook who writes comments to people like "suck my vag beeotch" and "ewww chodes are gross" and talks like this " I ain't got a valentine this year so you my valentine" now he stays up with this girl helping her do her hw in her dorm even when he has class in the mOrning, he calls her Hun and always says "bless your heart Hun youre so adorable" he brings her on proper dates and lOoks out for her at school, he brings her on trips and takes good care if her, he brought his ex to Colorado on a ski trip went to all of her
Sorority dances even when he was busy with school, made her a collage of all of there pics, held her every night in her dorm until she fell asleep and protected her and treated her like an angel.
If he is capable of being a good guy who is protective and caring towards all other women he meets then why did he do those awful things to me?
He also introduces all of his guy friends to his gfs and demands they respect his gfs. Yet after I had the abortion I called him because I was upset and he handed his phone off to his friend that said I'm gross and I'm a ***** and the guy i used to date was laughing. This torments me because it makes me feel like I'm the exception like I'm not a woman he treated me awful
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Because some women won't put up with that kind of behavior- so a guy like that treats them with respect. If you let him dis-respect you just one time he will continue doing it cause he got away with it. You continue to associate with him after he treats you like this?You should have dumped him long ago. Why are you still in touch with him?Respect yourself and others will too.
It's all about how you handle it. If you put up with any rubbish behaviour, it will continue. You know though, things aren't always as perfect as they appear. I'm sure he doesn't treat her as great as you think he does. There is no way a douchebag like that can turn into prince charming! I'm sorry it happened to You, he sounds awful. You deserve better, so don't ever put up with anything that doesn't seem right to You.