contemplating ending it all?!


Question: Contemplating ending it all?
Im only 20 years old and have had so much bad happen in my life i can barely ever focus on the good. My dad died in 2001 my only brother died and in 2007 my grandma and then in 2008 my mom. Ive attempted suicide too many times to count. I just started taking effexor 300mg again and so far it has not worked. I have major insecurities and trust issues and my fiance isnt helping. He cheated on me 3 times in our 4 years of our relationship and everytime i trust him he breaks it someway mostly in promises he makes then denies he ever made them...Im seriously thinking of ending it all but i was told my a counselor that before i do it i should try to get advice from other people. so here i am asking. what should i do? keep in mind breaking up really isnt an option considering i would be homeless and have no family or friends that could take me in

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I have been on the suicide crisis center as a counselor for five years and I want you to know that I spent 24 hour shifts helping people just like you. I'm taking the time to write to you to ask you to believe that I believe in you. There's a saying in life that goes "When you get to your lowest point, or you think your at your lowest point, stop, look around you, and you will always find someone who is at a lower point then you. I have felt abandoned many times and felt I would have no home if I left my abusive situation. I still have a roof over my head and meals everyday. So if you are in an abusive situation please leave and find a social service network like friends, a shelter, or anyone you can trust. But please do not take that final act of desperation of suicide because in all my sixty years I have never found any hardship or situation that there isn't a solution too. It may take effort to find it but there is always a solution to all problems. I will be more than happy to help you in any way I can because I do care about you. Please feel free to e-mail me at DDNDD1950@yahoo.com, and I will help you.



You need some serious relaxing time. You Husband a doosh, he need a good thumpin if he cheated on you 3 times.

I know how you feel, I was going to kill myself. But I'm afraid when I do it that somehow someone will find me and save me than I'll be put in mental hospital :/

I just sit in my bed all say and listening music.



You can't stop writing a book without all the chapters. You just need to end the current CHAPTER of your life. Don't destroy the whole book with so much potential! This new chapter needs change. New characters introduced. New setting. New hobbies. Take all the shiit from last chapter and LEAVE IT in last chapter.



You are never hopeless or stuck there are other options out there and you can leave your lying cheating husband at anytime! Their are options out there! Our early 20's can be tuff I remember. Suddenly trying to survive not knowing what we want out of life. But believe me, there is a silver lining out there and you can train your mind to Look at that! Pick up/order this book from Amazon it can save you life, its called: 'You Can Heal Your Life' By: Louise Hay
Read it, study it, learn it. Trust me, everything will seem so much more clear when you do. You can create the most beautiful life you can possibly imagine and this book will show you how to do it xoxo



You've been through a lot for your age and you should know that... there's a reason you're still here, and alive. Call it survival or God's will, but you have made it up to this point...even if you don't believe in God, the past events were just a test of your strength, and you haven't caved. Be proud of that.. And that's a sign.. there is nothing you can't face in life. Try telling yourself that everything you go through from now on will only make you stronger. Try to meet new people dear, u deserve much better. take care, there is still hope, there is so much to see and so much new love to be found.




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