would you date someone that is bi polar?!


Question: Would you date someone that is bi polar?
He's not my boyfriend but we've been dating occasionally and talking a lot..He's annoying the crap out of me!!! He likes me one minute then he won't call the next then he'll call me three times in a row if i don't answer then when I call him he wont answer because he's with his friends and he does heavy drugs, he's also an alcoholic. When he drinks he's like ohh I miss you I want to cuddle bla bla bla but when he's not drinking he's teasing me constantly that I'm boring because I don't have fun. Basically because I don't drink and do drugs he's 19 and I'm 18 oh and all he talks about is sex.

HE'S DRIVING ME INSANE!!!!! Is it me or is it him? I'm a very respectable girl I don't do anything bad yet he treats me like SH*T!!!!!!!!!!!! I really like him but I think I need to end it, even if he did plan on asking me out it still probably wont end up good.

What do i do?!

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Yes I would be very happy with someone with bipolar, because I think we would click together. I think that this is because I have it, understand it, and love intensity in life, so long as it's mostly positive.

My gut feeling though is that he's just the wrong guy for you, and nothing to do with the fact that he's bipolar. I am speaking from experience here, he wouldn't be taking what he does in a depressed mood and he's probably manic, or hypomanic. When I feel like that, everything has deeper meaning and I feel stronger for the people I love, so I would have even more respect than normal, even if I was doing crazy things and very impulsive so there's no way I wouldn't return calls or call you boring. When the depression hits, I think he'd close off into his own world totally

To put it in a better way I think you're too good for him and appreciate different things.

Bipolar myself, and have sorted myself out from taking drugs and going on binges 7 years ago



It all depends. Would I Choose not to date someone solely on the fact they are bi polar no. However if I get to know that person and we don't have enough in common I wouldn't. I do believe I would be less likely to date some one bi polar because of how unstable they usually are however some bipolar people manage just fine on medication and other treatments.



My boyfriend acts depressed and bipolar and like he has ADD/ADHD. It's hard. So yes I would date someone bipolar
But you should break up if you can't handle it and if he annoys and upsets you that much it's not worth it.

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He drinks, does drugs, and he's bipolar. Not a good combination. You need to dump this guy and go find somebody that treats you like a lady. I would probably date someone who was bipolar and taking medication. But I wouldn't waste my time dating this guy.



Run, as fast as you can, in the opposite direction. There is something mentally wrong with him not to mention he is an alcoholic and drug addict. He is nothing but bad news. Don't waste your time with him or trying to make it work. Life is too short.



Not everyone is ready for a relationship at all times of their lives. Above all, I don't like it if you are being treated badly. So for now it's best to move on.



stay away from him if you still desire to be a respectable girl. or stay with him and end up being trash just because you like him. and get controlled abused etc..



This is not about dating a guy with bi polar, this is about dating a guy who is immature, alcoholic, inconsistent, and treats you badly. So, what do you reckon?
Ditch the guy, he is bad for your self esteem, bad for your reputation, bad for your mental health. You will not gain anything at all from this relationship but if you stay your self esteem will be so low you will end up glad of any crumb of attention he gives you. Leave while you still have the sense to post this question.
Bad boys are a bit of a myth, once you figure that out they stop having any appeal.




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