I'm mentally unhealthy !! Please help me :\.?!


Question: I'm mentally unhealthy !! Please help me :\.?
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I'm 15, going to turn 16 this june.

- I can't sleep properly
- I got so much school coursework

People say I'm stressed but I don't this this is the full cause, I get so angry over the littlest things.

I'm so unfit aswell :( ... I use to play ALOT of football ages ago but I got a disease in my leg called, osgood schlatters. Now that I've recovered, I'm so dam unfit.

My parents are muslims and strict on me, they don't let me party or talk to girls but I do, do it behind their back infact on wednesday I'm sneaking out to a party which they think is a school trip.

My dad pisses me of, because I'm always on my PC, he thinks im not social. he thinks im lazy and all kinds, and he always asks me these questions that have a meaning behind it.

Like he would say ... So what did you do today? ... He's just trying to make me think about what I actually did.

I may seem like I'm an emo nerd but trust me :\ I'm not its just everything is making me insane ...

When I go out my parents give me the littlest amount possible, and my dad wont even let me get a job.

I say to him I want to get sleeping pills to help me sleep he says " No you just need to exersize in the day and sleep early" but thats complete bull **** because I do exercise in school and I simply CANNOT SLEEP EARLY.

I feel helpless :( when my friends tell me to go out i say a fake story because I know my parents wont give me money.

And i get blamed for everything, whether its at school or at home I am the guy that does everything wrong !!

I don't know what to do, I'm going insane.

Answers:

Okay here is some advice from an older teen:

Ask your teacher if you can have some slack on your course work
Explain to your parents why you need a job
Exercise !! (it really does help with sleep and you will get fit again)
Sneaking out/lying... well you shouldn't do that.. but... I understand (don't get caught and be safe)

If you show your parents and teacher you are responsible they will give you more freedom

17 year old



go to hospital lol...



ASalamalakum first be happy in your life what Allah has given to you and think why your mom and dad are unhappy may be your hearting your parents indirectly .you think your saying lie to your parent but you cannot lie to
Allah who is seeing everything and read quran with meanings or see vedios and hadiths im saying you thats why your muslim and you know that paradies or jannat is in your feet of your mom and dad is door of paradise or jannat so you have to obey , respect ,love and take care of your parents . Dont be angry with your parents if they are not giving you money they dont want to spoil you by giving money be happy what your mom and dad are doing to you and plz watch the vedio on youtube sureh rehman and sureh waqaya. May ALLAH bless you and guide you to the right path Ameen and know your responsibily of being muslim on internet.



I hate to tell you this, but you're a teenager.... It truly is as simple as that.
I really don't think there's anything mentally wrong with you, you sound like every other person I knew when I was 15!
Maybe you've got it somewhat harder because you come from a strict upbringing but really, you've just gotta find who you are and stick to that - your parents may have some input but they can't force you to be someone you don't want to be.




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