Do you think it's weird that I feel free because my boyfriend committed sui!


Question: Do you think it's weird that I feel free because my boyfriend committed suicide?
I am 24 and a nursing student about to graduate in May. Two months ago in December, my boyfriend who I have lived with for two years committed suicide in the house he owns.

I was upset it about for a while but right when school started up again, as I'm coming closer to graduation, I am excited that I can move away from this rural town, away from his shoddy house, and away from the responsibilities I have had here. I have been living in his house and plan to until May when I graduate, so I haven't told the family yet about his tragedy. It is has been so nice being alone in the house when before I had to share it with another person and have the responsibilities of helping to keep it clean On many evenings I invite my friends over here to relax and play the Wii.

I am so excited about my life now when I can work as an RN, move to the suburb of a large city, go to nightclubs to eat candy and to dance. I picture myself doing things I wouldn't have ever done if my boyfriend were here or if I had kids as baggage, lol!

Do you think this feeling is weird? I feel so free!

Answers:

Best Answer - Chosen by Voters

You wrote, "I haven't told the family yet about his tragedy."

What? The guy killed himself and you haven't told his family so you can go on living in his house rent-free?

Wow, now THAT'S cold-hearted!

Good luck!... :-D



While it may seem very wrong and inappropriate, it is natural to feel "free" after being out of a relationship where you may have felt a bit restricted. Don't worry, it doesn't make you a terrible person.



Some how its good, that your not drastically upset about it. But you may be too happy, since it wasn't that long ago.




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