Which is the best med for mood stabilization, least side affects?!

There's no "one size fits all" answer to that, especially with medications designed to improve mood. That's extremely individualized. Even psychiatrists don't know the answer to that in advance. But they know the drugs. So they'll be in a position to know what might be some good candidates to try. But everyone is different and reacts differently. One antidepressant will be great for one person's depression and not do a thing for another's. You need to be guided by your doctor's advice on this question.

BA Psychology and various.

I would never take any medication that alters how you think and/or your emotions because there is always a long list of side effects and they always say that thoughts of suicide could occur. I would just suggest keeping it old school and smoking some marijuana to calm yourself down.

Only your doctor can answer that. Different antidepressants can work differently for different people. It's an art, not an exact science. The only way to find out is to try what your doctor recommends. Don't be shy about asking questions and letting your doctor know what is and isn't working for you.

Viagra!