What did I do wrong????????!


Question: What did I do wrong????????
I just wanted some space to myself. I did not talk to my best friend for a few weeks because I was dealing with a heartbreak so I wanted to be by myself. I gave her a notice that I am going on a hiatus for a few months, and she got angry at me. She kept saying, "How would you feel if I did the same thing as you?"
The strange thing is, if she did this to me, I don't feel offended. I respect people's space, why can't she do the same to me too?



So we got into an argument, and I was getting tired of her controlling me so I told her that maybe we should be acquaintances instead of being best friends as I felt too suffocated by her.
And, knowing the fact that I have trust issues, she use this to insult me and said that I would never know the meaning of a true friendship and I would never have any true friends in my life.
I have stopped talking to her since then. I am not angry with her, just felt that this friendship is too unhealthy and toxic.


I looked at her facebook, and I realised that she joined this fanclub called, "Call yourself a friend? You are the biggest bullshitter I ever know"
I am wondering, what did I do wrong in this entire friendship? :(

Answers:

You did nothing wrong. Sometimes, people just aren't compatible. You're introverted, she sounds possibly extroverted, you're detached and observant, she's emotional, you're reserved. It would likely have happened at some point anyway.



You did nothing wrong.



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