Can someone please help me? im done living my life having ADHD and aspergers i d!

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"i don't fit in with most people"
Yes that tends to be a common issue.

I tend to take strategy and tactics from here:
"Mankind are a herd of knaves and fools. It is necessary to join the crowd, or get out of their way, in order not to be trampled to death by them." William Hazlitt.

To fit in with the crowd when you want to, or have to, it's a matter of learning social skills the hard way, since we don't tend to pick them up instinctively. It can be useful to acquire some "social camouflage". It takes thought and observation, and books or a personal guide can help.

But very much explore the other way too: forget about the crowd and "most people", and look to find the niche places and activities that suit you, for work and hobbies and fun. You are more likely to find people who you more naturally fit in with in such settings.
Never mind what the mainstream gets up to.

Scientists have found that certain medicines are helpful in improving ADHD symptoms. These medicines help people with ADHD to concentrate and focus better. Methylphenidate drugs (like Concerta, Ritalin LA, Focalin XR, or Metadate CD) affect chemical signals in the central nervous system.

Try this site: http://kidshealth.org/teen/drug_alcohol/drugs/ritalin.html


As for your other question, the core signs of Asperger's syndrome can't be cured.

You can try therapy, training, and medications such as:

* Aripiprazole (Abilify). This drug may be effective for treating irritability related to Asperger's syndrome. Side effects may include weight gain and an increase in blood sugar levels.


* Guanfacine (Intuniv). This medication may be helpful for the problems of hyperactivity and inattention in children with Asperger's syndrome. Side effects may include drowsiness, irritability, headache, constipation and bedwetting.


* Selective serotonin reuptake inhibitors (SSRIs). Drugs such as fluvoxamine (Luvox) may be used to treat depression or to help control repetitive behaviors. Possible side effects include restlessness and agitation.


* Risperidone (Risperdal). This medication may be prescribed for agitation and irritability. It may cause trouble sleeping, a runny nose and an increased appetite. This drug has also been associated with an increase in cholesterol and blood sugar levels.


* Olanzapine (Zyprexa). Olanzapine is sometimes prescribed to reduce repetitive behaviors. Possible side effects include increased appetite, drowsiness, weight gain, and increased blood sugar and cholesterol levels.


* Naltrexone (Revia). This medication, which is sometimes used to help alcoholics stop drinking, may help reduce some of the repetitive behaviors associated with Asperger's syndrome. However, the use of low-dose naltrexone — in doses as low as two to four mg a day — has been gaining favor recently. But, there's no good evidence that such low doses have any effect on Asperger's syndrome.

Try this site: http://www.mayoclinic.com/health/aspergers-syndrome/DS00551/DSECTION=treatments-and-drugs

Keep your head up high, we are all struggling with something in life and you will eventually overcome yours, just wait and see. Stay positive! I hope I helped! :D

http://www.mayoclinic.com/health/aspergers-syndrome/DS00551/DSECTION=treatments-and-drugs

http://kidshealth.org/teen/drug_alcohol/drugs/ritalin.html