Is this EMOTIONAL ABUSE? or am I over reacting?!
Question: Is this EMOTIONAL ABUSE? or am I over reacting?
Whenever I clean the kitchen or clean up the house and he's home, he stands right next to me and watches me so close. If I dont do it HIS WAY he will tell me how to do it, and if I go on doing it my way he will literally YELL at me and wont stop. For ex. the other day I was putting away pans, I didnt do it his way even after he told me how to do it, and he yelled and yelled at me, and said I do everything wrong.
If I accidently sit on the couch too hard he will yell at me and make a big deal about it, and tell me I need to sit gently so I dont ruin the couch, and then he says You will understand someday when you have something to treasure.
I am 7 months pregnant, and if I eat then eat a little more of something he will say something like, didnt you just eat, or how can you b hungry still.
Answers:
Wow your going to be a terrible mom, maybe you should have thought before you had this child with him,. I cant believe you would bring a child into this world with a father like that.
Tell him if he doesn't like the way you do it to do it himself. My boyfriend will tells me he doesn't like the way I do something and say next time just leave it for me. O.K sounds good to me. I am also pregnant and understand the hunger. My boyfriend will go get me more food if I want it. Your boyfriend is a jerk and you are ALLOWING him to treat you like that.
Hes like me. Im a perfectionist. Hes also somehow mad at his self. You be sure to do every single litte thing with the most perfection. If he still doesnt resolve this anger then you should leave. Im not sure he will change.
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That is emotional abuse. I am so sorry this is happening to you.
Believe me, this is EMOTIONAL ABUSE. Your husband is a terrible person
It is yes, you should break up with that jerk freak immediatly.
I think he probably has OCD, and he's taking it out on you. When he gets upset with you for eating, say, "You idiot. In case you haven't noticed, i'm pregnant. It's normal." or something along those lines. Try telling him how he's making you feel, and if he doesn't change or doesn't care, i recommend leaving him. If he tries to make you feel guilty, try to make him see it from your perspective. Maybe tell him to see a psychologist or something.
PS: i think, just as a side note, that people should wait until they're married to have sex. Just saying.