I just don't know what to do..I need your help. I feel like I hit rock bott!

Question: I just don't know what to do..I need your help. I feel like I hit rock bottom.?

I am a 14 year old girl. I just dont know what to do with my life. I need your help. I am always bored at home. I never go out. I have a lot of friends in school. I have one close friend and she is starting to make plans without me. I feel desperate. I am sick of being bored. I am sick of being lonely. I am sick of putting on a fake smile and laugh for those around me. I feel like I am depressed. Nothing seems to bring me up when I am down. Everyday seems like a bad day. I want to hangout and go out with more people and friends. My life is so boring. What makes it worse is that I never thought my life would come to be like this. I always was happy and friendly and hanging out with friends. Now I feel like...BLAH. My life has hit a dead end and I dont know what to do. I dont want help from a doctor. I dont want to be considered crazy. I love staying at home with my family. But its starting to get old and boring..like me. I need opinions. What to do? Thanks!

Answers:

Try music, comics (tintin and similar available on net) and even a few comedy flicks.

At this age it is common to seem everything changed but in some time things will get back on right track.

Your friends might not be able to take your silence and that's why you miss hangouts. Open up with people, ask freely for help and offer them if you can, share jokes and humor with them and I don't mind if that include mimic of teacher (keeping the grace). You would be surprised to see how keen they get to speak with you again. Don't miss an opportunity for hanging out with friends.

By the way, you never need any help from a doctor. Throw this thought of your mind for once and for all.

maybe try getting new friends.. dont always hang out with the same "friends" in skool... try a new group, but dont like rely on them 100% rite waway.. start talking 2 them n then sitting with them sum times n then start getting closer... good luck, that rly sux... kinda going thru the same thing, too, so just know its common n u'll get over it... dw :)

Find a hobby that you might like. Like reading, playing games online, etc.

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