In an abusive relationship help !!!?!


Question: In an abusive relationship help !!!?
Hi well me and fiance have been together a year we have a baby together. But things just arent always right. For example he has cheated in the past and we both hit eachother, but this didnt start happenin until i got prego and now she is in the hospital born early. He is always calling me a c@*#& and such but i always call him an a** hole. When he gets mad i try to go outside take a walk but he stands in front of thr door so i hit him ...stupid i know. I never no one in my life till i met him and now its back and fourth and he always wants sex. Even when i dont want him i give it cuz i want him to be happy cuz i do still love him soo much i just wish he would stop. Like last night he told me to hit him cuz it would snap him outta it but i just sat there and cried though i did hit him i dont know why and we rarely talk like we used to plz HELP !!!!! What should i do get help or get out ????

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You do realize that you're abusing him as well, right? The only person I feel sorry for is that kid. Did you honestly jump on Yahoo! Answers to ask this? How have you not already left him, and how do you need help seeing that that's the only option? Grow up, leave the asshole and get that kid who YOU are responsible for out of that house tomorrow. Honestly...the kid is what makes this whole situation incredibly selfish on your part.

It seems to me that you guys may have took things a little too fast, a year long relationship and he's your fiance and you guys have a baby already. You should have really got to know him a little longer because after a certain time, you may actually see a different side of him. Well that is my opinion. I hope your relationship goes well. If anything, maybe you guys should take some time and sit down to discuss about how you feel.

you need to talk to him

Leave him !!

you two deserve each other i just feel sorry for the child

Help asap ! Not healthy to u nor ur baby ! Dnt regret stuff later on !


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