Dealing with my impossible family after learning my fiance was murdered?!


Question: Dealing with my impossible family after learning my fiance was murdered?
My fiance died in October of 2010. I was not with him when he died. I was told he died in his sleep from aspirating on his vomit but have recently learned that there was more to the story. Apparently his brother killed him by hitting his head against the wall, which caused a hematoma in his brain, which caused him to vomit and aspirate.
Needless to say this new development has left me devastated. I have known my fiance all of my life and was dating him from the time I was 16. I am now 22. My family, who has always been IMPOSSIBLE and over bearing, are being extraordinarily insensitive to my situation.
Today my mom wanted me to cook and clean and care for the dogs. I understand that these are my normal responsibilities but given that I JUST learned this news yesterday, I feel I can't function well and asked to be excused for the next day or two. This angers her to no end and she is lashing out at me constantly, calling me a *****, saying I'm being "beastly" because I'm not doing house work. I'm fed up and wish I could just get away, I haven't even been able to cry because I've been so angry. How can I get her off my case?

Answers:

Girl I know how your feeling something similar happened to me, what you really need to do is get a way from them for a few days or a couple weeks you need time to mourn and heal dont let your family bring you down more than you already are... Im sorry i have limited advice but there really isnt anything you can do to change the heart of some people Best of luck.



your 22 so you can move out if you want, and you don't need to cry because it won't make things better I think it just makes it worse. wish you the very best:)




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