Plz help, I feel like I want to die?!
Question: Plz help, I feel like I want to die?
1. I always scream to my parents because I get easily irritated. I think my dad caused this because since I was a kid he would always scream and make me nervous( he was in the army so he's very strict)
2. my science project was ruined
3. everything bothers me I just don't know what to do anymore I want to talk to my mom but I don't her to see me crying plz help me idk if I want to die.:'( I feel so depressed right know plz help me!
Answers:
You will be okay.
If you feel like crying, then it's okay to cry for a while. It will probably make you feel better.
It's good that you can talk to your mom! Once you calm down a little, you should tell her how you're feeling. She can help you. You should try to figure out what irritates you about your parents. Sometimes parents are just unreasonable, but sometimes they have your best interests in mind. Maybe instead of screaming at them, you could take your irritation out in some other way, like keeping a journal or exercising. I know it sounds silly, but it works!
And about your science project...I've always been super-stressed about school stuff too, but I've learned that some things are simply more important than others. Your mental health and happiness are far more important than your grades. It may not feel this way now, but everything will turn out all right. :)
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Why can't your mother see you crying? Why is that a bad thing? Your mom can make this situation better... just like all situations. When your mom tells you everything's gonna be alright, you believe her. It's probably a good thing you scream and get all your anger out. But now just calm down and see if you can save your science project, and if not, please tell me you know it's not the end of the world. You can get an extension or something. I hope you feel better, and I hope your Mom helps you.
That's what moms are for--to help you through things. Don't worry about her seeing you upset and crying. You need to let your feelings out!
I grew up in a very strict family--my dad was in the Navy for over 20 years and was extremely strict--so i have an idea of where you are coming from.
I am sorry about your project being ruined--take some deep breaths and work on things one step at a time, so you aren'y feeling so overwhelmed.
Hormones will make you moody and irritated at times-and, unfortunately, it is all part of being a teenager.
Go, talk to your mom.
Things can and will get better.
24 yrs psychiatric nursing
What you need to do first is calm down, ok? :) Decide to take a break from all this for an hour or something. Take a bath, watch a film, something like that. Talk to your mom while you are calm, then she won't be seeing you cry. She will be able to help you, and if not a school counselor can. There are so many ways out of this- you do not need to die. It will be ok, you just have to talk to someone!
You really need to tell your parents how you feel. Try to stay clam. Things can be worked out. You're not the only one who feels this way. Check out the book-Chicken Soup for the Teenage Soul. It has some stories in it that should help you. If you continue having problems & your parents aren't able to help, then you may need some counseling. Good luck.
i think your going through a reallllly shitty time..just try to relax, cry, exercise your pain away, be chill..talk to your parents if it becomes a growing problem..goodluck(:
your age is just a really shitty time...dont worry, i promise it will all go away, but you might want to see a doctor or school counselor