help no friends no life .**** all?!


Question: Help no friends no life .**** all?
i have not been to a party in two years had no friends in two years i have no idea why people don't like me i try really hard to be nice i am not a loud person ( i used to be tho) i am really quiet i use to be a dancer and got hurt and can no longer dance i sing really well and play a few instruments i sing on stage but fell sick a few month ago and have not been on stage and since thats the only place i am happy i an screwed i am so depressed ... cut myself

Answers:

It's okay.
Do something about it.



I think you're overwhelmed and that's why you're crying, when you say "no reason at all." Overwhelmed with frustration and sadness. But you can get free counseling SOMEWHERE in every city. Call your County Mental Health Department. I'm sure you have other talents that you would enjoy as much as being on stage, you just have to look deep inside. I also was a dancer and loved it to no end. But now I have a health problem and I cannot dance, I can't even run. But I found out I love to do quilts and give them as gifts. It brings me as much joy as dancing and acting did. You need to remember that to have a friend you only need to be a friend to someone...don't TRY SO HARD, just be friendly and caring, but take good care of yourself first so you can then devote some energy to another person. Taking good care of yourself would be getting counseling to help you sort all this out.



sign of depression
you are extrovert and tortured by loneliness,
just go out and hang out , it is better to be screwed than being alone



I am a musician singer-songwriter as well. I suffer from mental illness and 3 years ago I got extremely sick with chronic fatigue syndrome, I also have fibromyalgia. It's hard because I've had to give up my dreams, but I've found solace and joy in writing songs and playing guitar in my bedroom and outside. So you are not alone. I understand the pain that you feel.

I don't have many friends either. But the past two years I've met two wonderful ladies online, we have become close friends. So maybe you should try joining a support group online or joining chats. That's what I did. I got involved with online support groups and met some people who I can relate to and I'm not the only musician going through these things.

Do you have medical insurance? If so, they will cover certain therapists you just have to call your insurance carrier and ask them about it.

For me I had to find joy in little things. I have two young puppies who fill my life with happiness. I write songs and feel a sense of purpose even though I'm not playing gigs or anything, the pure joy of playing music is invigorating. And I feel like I'm helping people when I can get on here and answer questions. Anyways, try focusing on today only, because yesterday is gone. And everyday ask yourself "what can I do today to help somebody else?" Because when we help others it makes us feel better.

There is hope. Even for me and my situation I still think that things will get better. They can for you too.

*Add* In my city there is a counseling center that specializes in grief and trauma and they offer free counseling. There are also christian counselors who offer free counseling for people who can't afford to pay. You could get connected with the local NAMI organization and find out more information. Also, do some research online and find out if there are similar services offered for you locally.



get state assistance and get insurance your insurance will pay for therapy if you cant get state assistance then there are mental health hotlines that are free also i dont know if it works for around where you live but http://www.211.org/ going to this site or calling 211 may help you ALOT its free and confidential theyll probably set up a meeting with emps (emergency medical psychiatric services) to give you a psych eval and determine your current state of mind and if your not talking about killing yourself theyll set you up with a therapist theyll do alot of the work for you in the mean time you should do SOMETHING because doing nothing all by yourself can cause alot of damage try joining some kind of class that you can express your liking to music. maybe a choir or a music class and if your injury isnt disabling maybe zumba also you cant always rely on family especially when they dont know how to handle a situation sometimes you just have to take matters into your own hands and try to help them understand later

hope this helps :)




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