SHE GAINED OVER 50 POUNDS JUST FOR "LOVE"?!
Question: SHE GAINED OVER 50 POUNDS JUST FOR "LOVE"?
He added her on Facebook 9 months ago, so when she saw his profile pictures she fell in love with his eyes, so when she decided to accept his friend request, she realized that he had removed it. So for NINE months she's been staring at his pictures for hours and hours EATING like crazy, waiting for him to add her again. Her grades dropped, we're seniors and we're supposed to work hard, but she isn't.
I'm very concerned about her she's my good friend, what advice could I give to her? please help me I'd really love to help her but I don't want to hurt her! She's been telling me what's happening to her, and I always tell her that she should stop, so I started taking her with me to the gym but recently she's gained even more weight... she's depressed.
PLUS, she almost had a car accident because once, when she was driving her car she saw him and then she got all clumsy and all that so she hit his car! I told her to add him and talk to him because no one can fall in love by LOOKING at one's pictures, but she doesn't want to add him because she wants HIM to take the first step, so she believes that she's in love with him.
She's living a fantasy and my job as a friend is to help her out and open her eyes, because her parents don't seem to care. What do you think I can do? I'll be very thankful if you helped me out.
Thank you so much. It's a serious matter, so please, no spam.
Answers:
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She's dellusional, if it were me I wouldn't be able to think past giving her a good smack.
Either talk to the guy to get him to make the first move, or talk to her to get her to change how she does things. Make her move first.
Besides...the whole eating thing....does this guy like chubby girls? If she loves him, maybe you can say something like she needs to take care of herself, he may not find her attractive with the weight. And if he does, then good. But most importantly it's for her health.
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Interesting.
Generally speaking, girls, women, pussy; they all try to LOSE weight to make themselves more appealing.
You kids really are changing for the worse.
She's obviously obsessed with this person. Have you directly talked to her about her problem? Or maybe talk to her family. You could help her get over this.
Talk to the dude and ask him for help