i cant stand this anymore! i need help fast please!?!

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I can't honestly say that I understand but i'm a pretty open minded person and is there not a way for you to do both? maybe for your usual life being a boy if your happy like that but then plenty of boys/men enjoy dressing up and being girls for a while wether it be joining a club of some sort it means you don't have to have any drastic changes but can do both of course people might be shocked but if they care about you they would come round it may take a little while,would it help to talk to a professional(not because i think you are mentally ill or anything like that) but just it sometimes may help the stress side of it your torn between what you want to do and talking to someone may help you decide what would be the best way to go so that your life can be less stressful i hope others may have better advice than me perhaps you may find someone going through a similar dilemma or been through it.i'm sure you will find a balance but for now de-stress if you can we are all who we are as we all have the right to be and if people do not like it then i feel sorry for them these days lots of things are changing and becomming much more accepted(thankfully) by the majority good luck i hope things become clearer to yo so you can do what you feel without all the worry xx

its more common than you think mainly because our culture is very backward about sexuality (blame the victorians). but also isolation because of technology. young people get into a conflict because they have little experience and a lot of fear in discussing it with others of same age. first attractions are confusing in our restrained society. it would help to know your age. try opening up just a little to pals and you will find shared concerns the young have to reinvent a certain society. a more understanding one. at some point you will learn your true feelings with the help of someone else close (not family) to you that will help you immensley. this is the best way to find out. we all have shared gender elements and dark thgoughts. we are not the whole animal we are a part for a reason and therefore there is confliction that calms down in time. meditation may also help you just be calm and quiet