i am abnormally jealous, how do i get over this?!


Question: I am abnormally jealous, how do i get over this?
i cant even explain it. i am jealous of everything people have. i cant control it. when i get jealous i get uncountably mad. the only thing that runs through my mind why him? why is he so lucky to get that and i am not? i noticed some characteristics of my jealousy. like if someone worked for what they have i really don't get THAT ( i still do ) jealous. when i get uncontrollably jealous is when people get things they didn't work for. like my friend who is addicted to heroine doesn't ever work out and he has a six pack what the **** is that ****??? or when kids get ******* cars from there rich *** parents( i blew up on my friend once when he got a new car while everyone was congratulating him my rage was building and building, and when he came to talk to me i yelled out something along the lines of " how the **** do you deserve this car your just a lazy piece of **** that smokes weed all day and has never worked for anything in his life" ). i am not lucky like my friend i have to take the goddamn bus cause my parents were failures at life and can barely support themselves. or when kids get like 100 dollar allowance for ******* taking out the trash, while i have to work at gay *** subway. i am getting mad as hell just talking about it right now.

my question is how do i get over this?? i have heard repeatedly that jealousy is an unattractive trait. i try to hide it as best i can, but people notice epically ever since i blew up on my friend people have been paying more and more attention to my jealousy even mocking it sometimes. saying things like like "hey guys i just got blank from my parents are you going to go crazy bradyn???

please i really don't want to be this jealous how can i avoid this??

Answers:

It sounds like you are an envious person, not jealous. Envy can ruin your life because you never are satified with what you have and are too busy worrying about what everyone else has. It is only making you miserable. You need to start by stopping yourself from looking at what others have. Do not focus on their material possesion, focus on the person.

Quote:"Like my friend who is addicted to heroine doesn't work out and he has a six pack".....wow look at your priorities here. You call him a friend and yet you envy him having a six pack and you can ignore his addiction which happens to be life threatening. This is a haunting statement you make that really reflects on your character deficiencies. You are so green with envy that all you see is the materialistic side of ppl. I dont think you even have real friends. I'm not trying to be mean I am trying to help you here but the truth is going to hurt.

I dont just see envy in you but i see contempt and bitterness and even hatred. You call your parents failures....I agree that they failed at teaching you to develp personal skills to get you through life without this contempt you have. They didnt' help you develop self esteem and they didnt teach you that there are more important things in life than material posessions or stuff. But they are not failures they just failed at a couple of things as they are human. Your friend with the heroine addiction also has parents that failed from protecting him from drug addiction. Your parents raised you as best they could and gave you wht they had.
You need to stop acting out like a toddler that doesn't get his own way and you need to start maturing and working for what you want. It will mean so much more to you when you buy something from money you earned yourself than from ppl just giving you stuff.,, You can be the man you want to be but it wont happen is you sit on your ****...like those guys that just get everything for nothing...it's not character building. You can also make friends with ppl that are more on your financial level and then it will be easier to be around them cause you wont have them rub what they have in your face cause you will be equal to them. Life really is what you make of it. If you dont want to change then stay miserable, feel free.....otherwise stop making excuses and change.



Gods and clods, bro.

I get everything (that others want) and I don't do ****<



You have some issues. See a therapist.




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