Can a psychiatrist help in this problem? Please read ques in detail.?!


Question: Can a psychiatrist help in this problem? Please read ques in detail.?
I am from India. I have a niece who is 17 years old. She is otherwise very normal girl. Recently we found out that she is having affair with a guy who is not according to us a suitable guy for her.We are a Hindu and a wealthy family, whereas the guy is from Muslim family and are not economically sound. The guy is obviously unemployed and his father is a driver.My niece wants to get married with the guy. My niece enjoys fairly luxurious life style which i am sure the so called guy would not be able to give her after marriage. But my niece at this stage refuses to understand this reality of life. We are sure she cannot live without those comforts of life. Besides she is too young to get married and take good decisions for her.
So i thought if a psychiatrist could help. What is your view on whole thing?

Answers:

1. Brittle situation. Needs very careful handling.
2. Do not blame her.
3. She is still not mature enough to decide on marriage.
4. Yes, a psychiatrist should be of help. This should be done such that she is not forced to meet him/her, rather the psychiatrist visit the home and meet her, probably as if not by design.
5. She must know her future in life. Family members may not be helpful in this endeavor.



it may make the situation very complicated to go for psychiatric help. But you can try counselling by family members and a soft attitude and approach and show that how gullible she is at this age .if you force she may become rigid. Be gentle, slow , soft and accommodative in your approach. May god be with you



Any psychiatrist can't help. You have to find out a good psychiatrist. These are very sensitive matters. Your niece is very young. What you have mentioned is very much true and practical. But its may not be possible for your niece to understand all these, especially at her age. Be patient. Good luck.



talk positively to your niece & try to make her understand the situation..
even try talking to the boy's parents.. I am sure they will aslo have the smae opinion as you



a psychiartist will make her drive crazy.deal with her politely put her into circumstance where her luxurious life gets stoped.she might think her parents wil accept this n she can live the same life.dont force her too much.if she goes beyond limit make sure u show her hw tings wil be happen...for every action there is an oppsite reaction .what ever she does in this thing u guys better do opposite in a way tat muslim guy cant help n she suffers ..shel *** back to you man.ppl can be changed in any situations if its properly taken care.




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