I have really bad self-esteem problems.. any help ?!


Question: I have really bad self-esteem problems.. any help ?
Ok so.. i think i'm the ugliest peice of S*&^ in the world.. also i think i fail at everything! i put everyone before me because i hate myself too much to put myself in front of anyone.. i think every boy is too good for me ( not that any boys ever like me ) also i really have no faith or confidence please help :(

Answers:

First and foremost, what you believe is not reality, it is nothing more than how you perceive yourself. You are worthy, talented and special only you refuse to see those qualities. Where do these feelings stem from? Is your home life unhealthy? Have you been bullied in school? Such circumstances can chip away at our self-esteem. I bet you dismiss all of your positive qualities and fixate on your negative qualities. That's because you filter everything through a negative lens, one that leads you to believe you are unworthy. It's just that, though. A lens. It is not the true you. Believe in yourself. You are worth it. Best of luck.



awwh :( don't feel so down about yourself! Everyone has their imperfections, its seems like your just focusing on the negatives and not the positives. Everyone feels like that sometimes you just gotta boost your self esteem! Push yourself to things you wouldn't normally do (trust me it will boost your confidence a lot!) I dont know what you look like or your personality but im sure your really pretty and nice but you just dont see it!



so do i but screw those stupid fags who did this to you they wanted to see u like this so dont give it to them. no matter what u think or anyone says, ur beautiful so act like it and dont hate urself hate people who dont accept you for you. email me if u need anyone to talk to h43dsh0t@gmail.com
trust me itll get better



I'm the same way hun.
I'm not too sure what to do about it, though.
Maybe ask yourself WHY you feel that way about yourself?
And just realise you're probably completley wrong. I bet you're beautiful (:



In all honesty, its you. You do it to yourself. It is an attention getter and you dont see it that way. see a psyciatrist. it will help.




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