I think emotional personality is driving my loved ones away?!
Question: I think emotional personality is driving my loved ones away?
I have noticed that my being too vocal about my feelings makes the guys who like me go away. It's like pushing them away.. Im kind of jealous and sensitive to feelings because I really love them. Im a Pisces and l hope all other Pisceans will understand what I mean. Ones I know I love someone, it's like I give 100% effort for them and I think they get taken aback by that. I get hurt easily. They leave me. I feel like Im dropped like a hot potato. Im 21.. ive only liked 2 boys in my entire life, they both happened this year. First love was 19 yrs old and 2nd one was 26 but he only stuck around for 2 weeks, now he only wants to be friends. :(
Answers:
Firstly guys can be a little freaked out by people showing emotion so you don't want to do this before you even know a guy properly. Then once you get to know them and they've developed feelings for you they'll be touched that you've chosen to share things with them. I think if you keep things in so there's a bit of mystery if you let it all out straight away it gives the impression of you having nothing left to give as if there's nothing left to find out about you.
Personally I like to feel like I've earned someone love and trust as it feels more "real" initial connection is important but howing too much too soon will mean a guy doesn't feel like getting you to love him was a challenge so it kind of "cheapens" (sorry that may not be the right word) your love.
I've been there my friend