plz... help me? i really need help?!


Question: Plz... help me? i really need help?
I want to die. I cant get help, I've tried. I just really want to end it right now. But after the last time I overdosed, I know I can't force myself to take anywhere as much pills I need to die (26 being the most I could take). I just don't know what to do.. I can't go on.

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I have taken three overdoses and I'm only 18. The thing is, if you genuinely wanted to die you'd hang yourself. I'm not saying do that by the way! God no. The fact that you've only taken an overdose suggests to me that you still have something(s) to live for. You need to focus on these things. Everyone on here will probably suggest talking to someone, but that's not always easy when you feel this way. Especially when you feel as though nobody could possibly understand. You need to find somebody who is neutral and who can advise you on how to overcome the suicidal thoughts, I.e. A professional. You need to see your doctor who will be able to put you in touch with a counsellor. Don't just assume that nothing will help because counselling did wonders for me!



This can be fixed. I know that you may be tired of hearing people say that to the point that you believe it's bs and not true. However, this is not the case. Try to think about things in the big picture of life. There are many people who feel worse than you and they even can come out of the stuff they're caught in strong. I don't mean to sound cheesy or whatever, but it really is true. I've seen it happen with my own two eyes. There are so many things you can live for. Go find a good psychiatrist and they will help you. No matter what they cost, you will get paid back by being able to live life to it's fullest. I'm sorry if the help you have gotten hasn't worked, and this is a big flaw in our mental healthcare but please take initiative to help yourself and find a person that helps you, it may not be he first person you try.



It's hard.
Everything becomes a chore, thoughts of future are only painful, you're tired all the time and you just don't want to be here. You spend your nights, awake praying that when you finally go to sleep, you wont wake up. I've been there, sometimes I'm still there. It takes a lot of work just to get out of bed. What I found is that I needed something else to live for because I wasn't going to do it for myself.

In addition to a psychologist and medication, I have a dog. I love my dog. I love her more than anything else in this world and I live for her. If I don't get out of bed, she doesn't get to go outside and go to the toilet. If I don't get dressed, she doesn't get to go for a walk. If I don't leave my house, she doesn't get food. Also, the exercise I get from walking her everyday makes me feel so much better. It's like, I just need that fresh air in my lungs.

I'm not saying that getting a pet is some wonder cure but, that's what's working for me. You really need to find something that gives you reason to get on with your day. There needs to be something in your life that makes you get up in the morning. Maybe you need to talk to other people in your life about this. Make sure they call you, really make an effort to make plans to meet up with friends, family, co-workers... whoever it is. It doesn't matter just as long as you're getting up and doing something.



Don't think that way. First calm down and don't do anything you will regret, any bad descisions you make could affect you forever. I think one of the best solutions might be religion. Try Christianity but I don't want to force anything on you. Jesus can fix any problems, anything at all. He forgives you for anything you have ever done and can get you out of any mess. Read the Bible, it will help you trust me. My friend had similar thoughts to yours and is starting to recover and is starting to enjoy life through God. Hope that helps. Just try it and you will hopefully see a change. If you are already a christian, just keep praying every day and ask him for help.



omg first ...dont killl ur self...take a second RIGHT NOW to think about all the happy times in ur life time, child hood, freinds, family....AND DONT SAY U DONT HAVE ANY! YOU DO! and only losers do drugs...you dont sound like a loser...DO U? SO STOP ...people will miss you.



i love you




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