Am I being really horrible?!

Question: Am I being really horrible?

I had this 'boyfriend' we only meet for a few days...And then we started likeing each other, no, not the best choise, so then he started to ask me out.I said yes, and it wasn't that smart. So as the days go by, I started to really, get to know him, he is so nice and has a really good heart. But I rushed things in so fast, I didn't feel that way anymore, it's been a month...The relationship was kind of dead anyways. So I decited to break up, since im still young and had no point to date. It wasn't like were going to get married...But I did like him alot, I dont know why my feelings changed so fast. Yes, im still young(you can tell by my stupid mistake) But I feel so mean, I was being as gental as I can...I think he is sad, am I just being a bit*h? Some of my friends thinks so...

P.S ...We haven't even met...

Answers:

You're not really being horrible since you're still young and young people make mistakes. But you shouldn't break-up with him for such a reason like that especially since he likes you. Go tell him you are sorry and tell him that you just want to be his friend or you didn't want to go too fast!!!!!!!!

no, you aren't being horrible. the whole idea behind getting to know someone is to figure out if you like them or not and are compatible. it just didn't work out for you. you said it yourself you rushed things too fast. it's okay to back off. maybe some time down the road you can try it again since you really liked him.

been there.

No no! You did the right thing. I mean why prolong a relationship if you are not into him anymore, that would be like lying to him.

Breaking up is never easy, and trust me it never gets easier even after you get much older!

Making mistakes is part of learning!

You were not being mean, you were being the honest, be proud of yourself for doing the right thing and for being brave.

you would probably seem nicer if you explained to him why you broke up with him

life

its a little bit confusing, but i will try to answer it:p

So you like this guy, he is really nice and has a really good heart. Yhea you did the right thing to break-up, good job!

Since you are young (depending what young is), it may not be the worst mistake that you have made or will make. But keep in mind that most people are in love with being in love, this will not lead you to being happy!,..when you get older try not to give up that easy or you will never get happy.

The most important thing is that you dont feel like you have made a mistake, it does not mather what others say, because they did not feel what you felt and they did not have to make the choice.

Don't be so hard on yourself. You are not a bad person, you gave him a chance, you were nice to him and it's not your fault that your feeliongs changed. It would be worse if you stayed with him knowing that he is not right for you.At leat you broke up early before he got to like you even more and have more feelings for you. Also when you are young relationships dont really last long cause you are all inexperienced and you are just getting started dating and it's scary and confusing at first.

You gave him a chance and it's more than a lot of ppl would do so dont be hard on yourself you are a good person.

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