my cousin says shes going to commit suicide? what should i do?!
Question: My cousin says shes going to commit suicide? what should i do?
ok, this all stared when i started dating a guy from our school.....after we started dating my cousin eventually got to meet him...gradually my cousin started to have feelings for my boyfriend...he knows she has feeling for him but he has told her 20-30 times that he does not have feelings for her....
now that she knows he doesn't have feelings for her she keeps throwing herself at him when im not around ...shes even hid behind a corner and grabbed him as he walked by just so she could touch his butt...she rubs up against him and says perverted disgusting things to him....one day she even told him that she will force him to love her...he has also told her 20-30 to keep her hands off of him
now that she has finally got it through her head that nothing she does will change the way he feels she is depressed and when i asked why she was depressed she responded and said that she cant live without my boyfriend and that if i don't break up with him she is going to commit suicide by hanging herself because her life is pointless if she can have him......she keeps acting depressed and im really scared shes going to actually commit suicide......should i tell the school counselor? the school now has a program just for suicidal kids....or should i just break up with my boyfriend so she wont possibly commit suicide......what should i do about all this?
please give serious answers only because im being serious and i want an answer from someone who really cares and isn't just doing it for the automatic two points when your answer a question
Answers:
1 I think she is trying to get at you and she is lying.
2 What if she isn't?
You have to play it safe and tell her parents. If you don't and nothing occurs no problem, but if it does go wrong it IS your fault because you have not told anyone. She laid herself open to that solution people do when they 'tell'. If you want to kill yourself keep it quiet.
your cousin sounds like a very selfish person. commit suicide unless you break up with your BF? thats crazy
you need to talk to her and help her get over him, maybe possibly help her find a guy like your bf? this wont solve itself on its own
You should talk to your parents about it and tell her parents about her behavior. Hopefully they'll get her the counseling she needs.
tell someone definitely! and breaking up with you boy friend wont solve anything, your cousin will still be depressed that she isn't with him. she needs to see a therapist not just a school couselor
OK, I did not read your manuscript, but I would say to your question...
Tell someone! You should not take any threat of suicide lightly. Death is final, given any odds.
let her. then dance on her grave.
Definitely see the school counsel(l)or.
If she was an adult I think she would be diagnosed as an 'Erotomaniac'. She has totally sexualised the purity of love. She is blackmailing. She is threatening violence against herself. If she can't succeed with that she may be violent against you or your boyfriend.
I think you must get expert help.
Life experience.