I feel like i am devastated and im very depressed...i wana die?!

Question: I feel like i am devastated and im very depressed...i wana die?

Please if you will comment only rude things..dont answer the question at all. I am very depressed, im 16 female in high school...and i just went through a breakeup which was my first boyfriend. I am NOT allowed to go out ANYWHERE..because my parents are too over protective and dont tell me to try to get a hubby after school or something cuz we dont have a car now..so i am always inside my house. My life is home, homework, school and i work..and now i am devastated. Since im not allowed to go out..since te beginning of our relationship i told him exactly how things were and he said he was gona wait for me and be patient and love me and meet my parents. Im not allowed to go to parties or anything so it doesnt mean i wont let him go out..so i did let him go out..but i saw pics of him dancing very tight skin to skin with a girl (reggeton&hip hop) so i got mad and told him about it and he never said sorry..thats what bothered me. he only said "thats how u dance"and thats it. He would always go to parties with THAT girl and i have them both for a class.(which is a torture now). Anything i told him like "please dont go to that party"he wouldnt care about my opinion he would just go and do it..he didnt care about what i said. So i was always sad and wondering what he was doing and stuff so anyways that day i saw that pic i brokeup with him..and we agreed to be friends but he doesnt talk to me or anything so i dont talk to him either. Just cuz im very stupid i text him sometimes and stuff...he is very proud and thinks he's all that. Its been 3 weeks since we brokeup and his friend (the one that goes to parties and he danced with him) told me today ü should be strong cuz ur a better person than him cuz i know him and i know u. He said that he liked me and he told my mom that too"i said "before or after we broke up?"she said "after" ...(that was today) she told me she didnt wana be with him cuz she didnt wana feel guilty and all that and i said to not worry cuz i dont like him and she and him can do whatever they want. she said ok..so after school i texted him saying congrats and he asks why and i said "cuz u adn her witll be together soon" and he said who told u that and i said "it doesnt matter...what matters is u can go out to parties and have fun" he said ?ctually we are together now and ok u have fun tooo" that crushed me to tears and ..right now im very depressed..actually ive been like this for weeks and not even friends have helped me out...please tell me something inspirational...a similar situation uve had?? i need help...

Answers:

You r better then him. He's a cheat and will tell you want you want to hear, not the truth. Try not to be depressed, life is hard and unfair. You'll find someone one day and you'll look back and say to yourself; 'Why was I wasting my time?"
As for your parents, everyone should have parents like them. Unfortunately, everyone gets pregnant while their still kids and we just end up with kids raising kids and they're too young for it. The world is not a safe place and your parents are trying to protect. Try not to hold it against them. One day you'll be worrying about yours too.

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If you are feeling suicidal I would get help from somebody you trust right away. Also remember countless people have had to deal with the sort of stuff you are facing, so remember that you're not alone in feeling this kind of stuff. Try talking to someone who has been through what you are going through and getting some advice. I wish you well ;)

I lived with and loved a guy for a few months, not very long. It's been 6 years since we met and we have a 2 year old daughter together. I waited for him and waited for him, and about 2 months ago I told him I wasn't waiting anymore, that I didn't want to do anything with him anymore and that we were really, truly done. Yesterday he told me he loves this girl (his ex-girlfriend) and I'm shockingly okay with it. Three months ago I would not have been, I would've been a tearful mess. So this will not be easy for you, I wish I could say there was some quick fix, but there is not.

Okay, hun.
I am going to be completely honest with you. I have not been in this situation before. But, my best friend has been through it before. I have always been there for her. I'll be here for you, if you would like.
I'm sure people are going to tell you to "suck it up/cheer up" but, I'm not. I'm not sure if you're a Christian or not, but I believe that if God's plan is for you to be with him, you will be.
Sounds like your life at home isn't the best, either. I've been there. I've been depressed over 3 years. Taking meds since last november. Anywho, if you need to talk...email me. couldeverscream@yahoo.com I check it multiple times a day. Anytime, i'm here. Don't give up.<3

My experiences.

Just...breathe. It will be o.k.a.y, I promise. Things will get better. Just think of all you have to live for, and all the ways that life will get better. If you can brave this, you can sail through anything. Trust me, I've been right where you are - multiple times.

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