I asked out a guy and he said I wasn't sexy enough and needed to "wear!


Question: I asked out a guy and he said I wasn't sexy enough and needed to "wear more high heels and short skirts"?
Why would he say that? It was so mean, but is also socially unacceptable.

That was his exact words. Then he told me to go home and change and show him my sexiest outfit and that I probably didn't have one.

He is a colleague of mine. I don't think I dress frumpy, I think I dress like a lady, but he seems to want me to dress like a prostitute. What should I do? He was kind of laughing at me and my clothes, when no one has ever said anything before, ever and people tell me I am attractive etc. I am mostly shocked cause no one has ever said anything like this to me before.

It's so upsetting and has ruined my self esteem.

Answers:

I don't know why someone would say something like that. I don't understand people that are rude like that. Especially face to face.

You don't want to date a guy that treats anyone like that anyway. So do yourself a favor and move on if you haven't.

As for your self esteem, the people out there that are worth dating are less likely to date someone that dresses "slutty" so keep on dressing like a lady, because a guy that recognizes that is worth it.



first of all have respect for yourself forget about that jackass. if he only is attracted to you when your wearing certain clothes he doesnt actually care about you, most likely he just wants sex. youll eventually find a guy who is attracted to you withouth changing a certain thing about yourself. If you have to change yourself drastically to get someone to like you, it will never work.

youll find a guy it just takes time



How dare he!! If people tell you you're attractive and you're happy with how you dress, then don't change for him. I know that I wouldn't want to be with a man who asks me to look like a prostitute, and thinks it's ok to laugh at me. Joke of a man.



This is the guys problem not urs, he obviously a shallow sexist pig who boast hIs own low self esteem by damaging urs. Easy said than done I no but don't let his words get u down just console urself with the fact that with an attitude like that he will probably end up a lonely bitter old man xx



Honey, never let a man ruin your self esteem. If he said that to you, he's not worth you time. You sound like a very intelligent woman, you can do much better than a sleaze ball like that.



obviously hes sick and wants to be sexually turned on by your appearance so you could wear better clothing but nothing too drastic and whore-ish.. but always be yourself



Just ignore him. You shouldn't let one person get you down. Just don't talk to him anymore, or even better, go in and laugh at his clothes. Chances are they're not perfect either.



Get leg implants, that way you don't have to buy any new clothes.

...My pants.



tell him to piss off
he is not a gentleman



any guy like that you dont want. he's not worth wasting your time on



ask him to find a slut then..I believe u not one



meh. get over it, at the end of the day you respect yourself for what you look like. he wants to tap an A55 and then dump it, do you really give a crap what a guy like that thinks of you? if he were to find a girl sexy enough for him, then i would take that as an insult because he must like slutty hoebags so essentially he would be calling you a slutty hoebag.

lets look at it scientifically to depersonalise your decreased esteem. he has an underdeveloped limbic system, preventing him from being able to talk appropriately in social situuations, so feel sorry for him :D at the end of the day........... who gives a crap what a55holes think of you



Forget about that jerk, he is not worth your time! Anyone who wants YOU to change is NOT worth YOUR time. Keep your lady-like ways. He's clearly not man enough to handle a REAL lady, so let him have his hookers filled with STD's. Next time you see him be dressed in a classy outfit hold your head up high and show him what he's missing...if he just so happens to asks you out you can respond with, "Naaah...you're not sexy enough." and abruptly walk away.

Don't let this jerk ruin your self-esteem, forget about him and move on. Plenty of REAL gentlemen for ladies like you. ;)




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