Is it right for them to tell me this stuff?!


Question: Is it right for them to tell me this stuff?
my ex boyfriend dumped me for someone else janaury 2010. i had no idea that he'd dumped till i texted him and someone told me to "stop texting my man" come to find out it was the girl nhe dumped me for...me and his new girlfriend always argued, we argued for a long time through out 2010... my ex boyfriend went to prison last year in may 2010. remind you, since my ex boyfriend dumped me i haven't spoken with his mom or his sister because we were really close! his mom called me last month in janaury asking how i was doing...we caught up on a lot of things... she told me her son wrote her a letter and she has to put money on his books and dont know whats up with his girlfriend? three days after that, she texted me this "I JUST WANNA LET YOU KNOW THAT I WISH YOU AND MY SON COULD HAVE MADE IT HAPPEN" then, she called me to tell me that my ex boyfriend new girlfriend is sleeping around and havent heard from her since november of 2010. she told me she left a message for the girl on facebook in janaury to call her, the girl called. she asked have the girl spoken with her son, the girl said yes. the phone started to mess up the girl agreed to call back in ten minutes but the girl never called back so she called her and the girl never answered the phone! the girl havent called her back yet, and its been a month already! then, my ex boyfriend sister called me to see how i was doing and so she said, then she asked have i spoken with her brother and his girlfriend. she went on to tell me that her brother and his girlfriend is happy together, their cute together and they got mad love for each other...i told her i know you didnt call me to tell me this sh!t, she said she just wanted to see how i was doing and trying to make convo its how i take things. what is all of this all about? why would the mother and daughter call to tell me all this? why did they say what they said tgo me??? DETAILS PLEASE!

Answers:

I'd say, just break contact with all of 'em, remember they're his family first, your friends second, and quite frankly, you deserve better.

So just move on, ex-boyfriends family, are EX's too. Get some friends that don't have mixed interests, this is just too much negativity.



That's unhealthy get out of the health section.



I don't know why they would bother you with all of that information. Maybe they are trying to get problems started within you. Or maybe they just really like you and want to keep you in their lives and they think you are interested in the things they are telling you. But, they are being immature by telling you these things. You should ignore their calls. If you decide to answer the call, tell them, "I really like you, but it hurts me to hear this stuff. Please don't tell me these things."




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