Is there a good treatment to cure homosexuality?!


Question: Is there a good treatment to cure homosexuality?
Well, I don't want to hear anything like "it is not a disease/disorder, so you can't 'cure' it", "it's our DNA, we are born this way" or "there's nothing wrong with being homosexual"... anything like that. I don't want to hear those craps anymore. I am gay, but just hate it. Not because the way we are treated, but I just don't feel that's right, or natural. I am completely unhappy right now.. unhappy with the way I am, so... just don't want to hear your opinions. What I want to know if there is a good and permanent treatment.

Answers:

believe in the creator.



No, it is not changeable.

You can choose to be celibate. A lot of people do not get married so that is an option, and then nobody can question your sexuality. You just like to be single, that is a legitimate answer. those religions who are against homosexuality do not teach that being gay is wrong, they generally teach that having sex with others of the same sex is wrong. so being gay, and celibate, is just fine, even with conservative religions.

I do not think it is wrong to be gay, however, and I think it is unfortunate that it happened to you, given how much it upsets you.

Anyway, i ended up getting bipolar, and I don't like that, and there is nothing I can do about it except not tell anybody in my area. So they don't know. You can handle it the same way. IT IS NOBODY'S BUSINESS WHAT IS YOUR SEXUAL ORIENTATION.



I can’t help but think you’re a troll... but just to be clear. There is nothing you can do about the matter. If what you say IS true, then it sucks to be you. You can always fake it though.
CyberNara.

*EDIT* Yeah. Well... IF you are gay, there is nothing to change that. You are who you are. It doesn’t matter if you don’t accept your lot in life or not. Denying the truth IS NOT going to change the situation. Everyone has things that they don’t like about themselves... but you just need to buck up and accept things. What do you want me to say? Oh yeah... here’s what you do. You strip down to your skivies and run through the downtown core yelling “I love women!” You need to say this 50 times and then spin around 50 times yelling “I hate men!” as you you revolve around each time. Is that a better answer? Because if you want us to feed you a bunch of bull... I can give you some doozies. Or you know... you can accept your lot in life.



Just accept U'r self. U have freedom. It's not illegal 2 b gay. Peeple can go 2 hell if they judge. Remember U'r a human. I think that's part of the reason why U hate U'r self, cuz U don't want 2 hear positive things like it's ok or b U'r self. U want 2 hear negative things. That's wat I think any way. I'm not gay but I don't give a **** if U'r gay, U'r human. U deserve 2 b treated like 1. Not trying 2 piss U off but try talking 2 a therapist, may b they can suggest ways 2 cope w/ how U feel about it. Sorry U'r so mad about this.



If you feel it is wrong and not natural, then see a therapist who can help you cope with your feelings and come to terms with the way that you want to feel and see if it will make any difference. It could help but it might not. I'm sorry that you are going through all of this distress and want to feel straight. It could happen, but it may not. Good luck. No true treatment exists that I know of.



i know you do not want to hear it, but homosexuality is not a diesease. being attracted to the same sex is perfactly ok, but it is possible that you are attracted to both, if you want to know for sure try making love to somoene of the opisite sex

humaness



Get laid , do stuff that man do , get laid more and more offer by woman. Watch very carefully how your boy friends act trust me you can learn and also pray to god

Me



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There are types of cognitive therapy and re-conditioning that can help with changing behaviours that you don't want. I'm gay too, but it took me a long time to accept that and be okay with it, though now I'm essentially celibate. I came from a church that taught it was wrong, and many people gave me books about homosexuality and how to change my feelings. If you are religious then I would suggest you do some research, get some books and grab an accountability buddy; someone who will keep you on the right path, and be gentle with you.

If you are not religious, then find a sexologist or a sexual counsellor who is trained in these sort of areas; and who can help you de-construct your homosexual feelings and re-construct heterosexual ones. I know people who have changed their homosexual feelings, and some who have gone on to marry. Now, I'm NOT saying that I think it's wrong or perverted, but I DO think that it can 'feel wrong' for an individual, like it does for you. There is hope for you and help out there, so don't feel like you will be unhappy forever. We were taught in my psychology classes, that cognitive processes and behaviour patterns are often fluid and changeable if the person desires change and has good support and help.

Experience
Part Psychology degree




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