Does anyone else feel like this? How do I fix it?!
Question: Does anyone else feel like this? How do I fix it?
I need your help. I feel so unmotivated. Basically all I do is go to work, and then sit at home. I will go to bed at 2 AM, then get up and get ready for work and be at work for 10 AM, then get home from work around 7, and then I will just sit around, and go on the internet. I never get anything accomplished. I don't have very many friends. I've never really had a boyfriend. The only guy I got close with left me after two weeks, and it took everything out of me. It still kills me (It happened January 17). I am starting to like another guy now (I liked him before I liked the guy that I went out with, and now I like him again.) but it just doesn't feel the same since the other guy hurt me. He moved on, and it sucks 'cause I haven't. So how do I try and make an effort with this guy? I have no idea if he likes me. And so I just wish I knew how to actually accomplish something, and have motivation and feel that life is worth trying? I don't do anything, and I was homeschooled all my life. I am eighteen now, and live in the country, and have no drivers license. Please help me. Visiting a doctor is not an option...
Answers:
Sounds like you may be in a temporary rut- we all have them. Search for something new and interesting for you to do, I know it's hard but keep trying till something strikes your interest and not just guys. You will get over the BF you just need time. Do you have to stay up until 2? Sleep is very important to feel good and motivated and too much time on the internet can be draining too. Get some exercise instead! Is not seeing a Dr. really not an option? If that's something that may help please see one. Good Luck!