What were my chances of being raped?!


Question: What were my chances of being raped?
My dad is a doctor and lately has been acting weird around me, and recently about a week ago im almost certain he drugged me, and i woke up the next day naked. I was sore but there was no signs of semen or anything like that on me, however i did have a bruised rib. I remember my dad letting me drink a glass of champagne with him (occasionally he'll let me like once a month or so) and then i was out of it. I know for sure i was not drunk, and my dad does own many medical drugs and has made me take some for stress and headaches or any pains in the past that would just make me so out of it and dizzy and he would sometimes try to do stuff with me. I've always been afraid to tell anyone. I love my dad and he loves me but idk why he's been doing this lately it scares me.

I'm scared to be around my dad but he's almost always gone at work (and i dont have a mom fyi). The only time he's ever around is usually at night, except on the weekends. I haven't been ignoring him, but idk what to do around him, it's awkward and he doesnt even look at me the same any more. He looks at me in a more sexual way and doesn't talk to me much except about school and stuff.

What do i do? Do i confront him about this? I cant tell anyone else i cant risk anything. He's never abused me or tried to get out of hand (the times that he gave me heavy drugs and touched me and stuff he would always be drunk as well and claim he was just examining me but i knew it wasnt true).

My life is miserable, i have very severe depression and mild schizophrenia which has been under control lately by medication, but instances like this just make it worse. I can't handle this much longer

Answers:

that's awful.I cant help you a lot but I will tell you this-never under any circumstances drink anything open he gives you,also I highly recommend keeping a knife handy in your room,definitely tell a good friend,if it hasn't been too long get a rape test,and also a drug test to be certain. Other than that I can only pray nothing else comes of this. I really wish i was there i would beat the living **** out of him. Entirely too many people get away with this.

happened to multiple family members



There is a hotline for victims of sexual assault:
800-656-HOPE

They can probably help you. They'll probably be able to answer any question you have.

And touching you and whatever else is still sexual abuse regardless.



Definitely confront him about this. This is a serious issue and since he' your father you definitely should. He should understand.



" cant tell anyone else " if u wont tell . ask for help ur life will be more miserable so get help and dont hide its urlife and ur mind dont let people mess around it



wow I dont know what to tell you.



Your dad is lucky.

Just lie back, close your eyes, and relax.

Most guys only last a minute.



If this is for real, please email me. cristinakalpa@gmail.com. I am a sexual abuse/incest survivor. Please get in contact with me if/when you can.



Sweetie, I'm sorry this is even crossing your mind. The first chance you get, tell someone. A neighbor, a counselor, another doctor, an aunt or uncle, one of your close friends' parents. Someone needs to get you to a doctor to see if your hymen is still intact. You wouldn't have any signs of semen ON you. I know this sounds horrible, but you might need to check inside you. Go to a doctor as soon as possible so a rape examination can be performed.

I too am seriously concerned for you, and am willing to extend my virtual support. I'm no counselor, just a 22 year old girl who was once date raped by a trusted boyfriend. Email me if you need to: danielle.r@me.com

Good luck, girl.




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