I don't know how can I stop feeling like this...?!


Question: I don't know how can I stop feeling like this...?
I literally can't do anything, I always feel so tired... I spend almost my whole day in bed, just lying in it. Nothing seems interesting anymore. I used to enjoy things like drawing, sports but not I just can't be bothered to do anything now. Everyone keeps telling me that I'm so useless and lazy, and that I can't even take care of myself and that I'm not doing anything to help with housework... I can't stand it. I know they're right but I don't know how to change. I'm so sick of hearing how hopeless I am and how I don't even have any friends and never get out.
I often skip college because I just can't force myself to get up and go there. Sometimes I need to take benzodiazepines because I'm too anxious to go to lessons...
I don't know what to do anymore.

Answers:

Gabriel - It sounds like you may be suffering from depression. Please, please see your doctor (or find one if you don't have one) as soon as possible. There are many treatments out there for depression; you don't have to suffer like this. Since you are in college, you may need to go to your college's clinic/nurse. Also, for support, consider joining a club on your campus. I found that my college's chapter of Inter-Varsity Christian Fellowship was a great choice. Your college might have a chapter of IVCF, or another group like it, such as Campus Crusade for Christ. You can often find support and encouragement from some of the people in groups like these. In the meantime, look up Psalm 34:18 in the Bible - I find it very encouraging. Peace to you, Gabriel.



Wow.. :/ I feel soo bad for you.. I used to feel just like you durring last summer.. I dont know your cure, but mine was school, yepp, I met the guy im inlove with, and he likes me, I have LOTS of friends and everyday its something new, something better and funner :P
(middle school 6th grade xD)

But I'm so sorry, I know just how you feel but i just dont know how i csn help you, :(



You have to see a doctor about this - take someone with you and do not leave the doctors until you get recommended for treatment and help with this. Nobody should have to live the way you're feeling. Honestly, please get help for this. Best of luck and i hope you feel better soon.



If you are feeling tired have a medical check up,perhaps vitamins/tonic may help.Other problems are due to the fact that you have no aim/purpose in life.Set a goal and strive to achieve it.If you can not do it yourself please tell your parents or consult a psychologist.Good Luck



i think that u have to think positively about ur self i u can't try even.do not always think that u are sick try to forget it and try to be happy.if u are schooling don't miss ur studies because of the small illness.i also went to my lesson when i have high flem with me.in those days tears also came from my eyes when i read the letters.but because of my strength i manage to do my works weather i'm sick or not.
not only ur school works try to do u household works as well.don't think that u are lazy think that u can.u have written this question because u can do something.so why can't u do the Other thing as these things ah.
i hope that u will do something after reading my answer.




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