Why am i obsessing over someone i dont like at all?!


Question: Why am i obsessing over someone i dont like at all?
I dont like this guy at all and infact i hate many things about him even his friends.He is a bit different from the other guys that i have met in some ways but in other ways hes just like any ordinary guy.He is a total jerk and big liar.He is also extremely stupid but very funny.I dont get jealous at all when he goes out with other girls but infact deep inside i feel relieved and happy.He used to like me and was infatuated with me and made me feel very special and like i was the best girl .I do get hit on by guys and i thought dating someone would make me forget him but that hasnt happened at all and they have just made me feel worse.I dont why this is happening.

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Well, all I can say is that explains what love really is. As what you said, it shows that you accepts him for who he truly is and you can't forget him no matter what you do. Your story explains that love is accepting the person you don't like and whatever you do he is the one that your heart shouts.

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You may not like the guy, but you may like the attention he gives you. Just try to stay away from him as much as possible for a while.



u are affected by anxiety which one gives repeated un wanted thoughts like remembering always particular some person, so be cool and keep distance away from him to solve ur anxiety.

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I think u r in Love...



It depends on what the obsessing is over -- is it pure hatred, or sadness?

If it's sadness, then you probably miss the way he made you feel. Whether or not you actually liked him, you did like the fact that he made you feel wanted. So now that that's over -- again, whether you like him or not -- you feel upset. It's like how when you were little and you got bored playing with a toy you didn't like anymore -- you'd put it down and forget about it, but then once another kid picked it up you suddenly wanted nothing but that toy again. It doesn't mean you like the toy. You just want what you can't have. It's natural.

If the obsession is mostly hatred and anger, then it's probably just because he's a shitty person like you said. In that case, just distance yourself from him and distract yourself from those thoughts. He's a jerk -- so why would you waste time and brain power thinking about him? Let his jerkness go and just stop thinking about him entirely.




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