Is suicide the answer yes or no?!


Question: Is suicide the answer yes or no?
Today I found out that my (long distance) boyfriend has been flirting with some other girl and claiming he was single.. so I just told him that I wanted to be just friends and I felt terrible so I burnt myself and I don't know what to do I really can't handle anymore stress.. suicide seems beautiful right now.. Please help me if you care..

Answers:

Hm, I thought you were living life with a sense of humor when you told that girl that the way to whip her hair was "back and forth," LOL.........

I have tons of problems too. Like bad. It's all, though, inside us what we choose, how we choose to react to the world and the way we want to see things. All of life is basically a challenge. Rising above is the ultimate feeling... giving in to loss is the worst feeling...

There are few free handouts in life and it can be either terribly dark or greatly enriching depending on how you want to choose to see and live it. You have to choose if you are going to be one of the minority who truly rise above and become great, or if you will be like the majority who can't bring themselves to go the extra mile, and who choose to live in misery. And it definitely helps to have a light-hearted attitude. It can be tough to do... but the more you learn to be "cool" with whatever happens, then you can handle *anything* that life throws your way. And once that skill is learned, it should be difficult to lose it.



No, suicide is not the answer.

I don't know if you have a religion, but in my beliefs you burn in hell for eternity if you kill yourself. I'm sure living for a few more tens of years is better than that!

If you don't have a religion, then suicide for you is just an easy way out and sleeping for eternity. Yeah, that does sound pretty good. But listen, EVERYONE dies in the end. You are not going to live forever, and I doubt these problems you are facing now will last more than a year at most! Suicide is a permenant solution to a temporary problem.

I have thought about suicide many, many times but I went to a psychiatrist, got the help I needed and am now back on track. I promise you, things will get better. Just keep fighting, put yourself first and stop suffering in silence - you deserve the help you need!

Good luck.



Absolutely not! I went through a bad breakup about a year and a half ago in which my fiance (we had just bought the rings and dress) was cheating on me. After I had broken it off with her I felt miserable and very depressed but after a good deal of looking and more than a couple bad dates Ive found someone that makes me happy and whom I love with all my heart and who loves me back and I thought that would never happen again. No matter how sad you feel there are other people who have it just as bad or alot worse than you do. Im sure you already feel emotionally destroyed and physically hurting yourself is not going to help you at all beleive me. I just recently saw a doctor for depression and got a prescription that really helps. If it gets bad enough, wich it sounds like it is, you may want to seek help also. Good luck to you.



My dad has abused me for at least 10 years of my life I have thought of suicide, but have never done it. After a while I figured out there is a lot out there to live for and you shouldn't end your life. Step back for a moment and think about if you committed suicide what would that do, who would it effect and seriously over a stupid boyfriend go smoke a joint and don't worry about it.



SUICIDE IS NOT AN ANSWER, IT'S AN END. THE END OF YOUR LIFE, THE END OF YOUR SMILE OR LAUGH, THE END OF YOUR FUTURE. THIS GUY THAT YOU TRUSTED AND CARED ABOUT HAS HURT YOU AND DISAPPOINTED YOU. I AM SO SORRY THAT YOU ARE GOING THROUGH THIS. PEOPLE DISAPPOINT EACH OTHER EVERY DAY UNFORTUNATELY, I TOO HAVE BEEN HURT BY A MAN. YOU ARE NOT ALONE. TRY TO LOOK AT IT THIS WAY, THERE WILL BE A SPECIAL MAN MEANT FOR YOU WHEN THE TIME IS RIGHT, AND YOU WILL HAVE AN OPPORTUNITY TO EXPERIENCE LOVE AND HOW WONDERFUL AND FULFILLING LOVE CAN AND SHOULD BE. I KNOW YOU ARE HURTING RIGHT NOW, LIFE DOES HURT SOMETIMES, LET THIS PAIN HELP YOU GROW AND BECOME A BRAVE AND WISE INDIVIDUAL. IF YOU LEAVE THIS EARTH, YOU END ANY CHANCE OF (WHAT MIGHT HAPPEN). EACH DAY THAT WE AS PPL ARE GIVEN IS A RENEWED CHANCE TO EXPERIENCE LIFE, LOVE, AND EVEN PAIN AND HEART-ACHE. ALL OF THOSE THINGS ARE PART OF LIFE AND EACH AND EVERY ONE OF US WILL EXPERIENCE EACH. PLEASE DON'T GIVE UP, WHAT WOULD YOUR FAMILY AND FRIENDS GO THROUGH IF YOU WERE GONE? HOW MUCH PAIN AND HEART-ACHE WOULD THEY SUFFER? THE BIBLE HAS ALL THE ANSWERS WE NEED. I DON'T KNOW YOUR BELIEFS THOUGH I WOULDN'T DISMISS WHAT THE BIBLE HAS TO OFFER. MY THOUGHTS AND PRAYERS ARE WITH YOU.

THE HOLY BIBLE



No! Suicide is never an answer. You will find someone who treats you right. Its actually quite selfish to commit suicide. Your friends and family will feel so sad all the time. Also, if he finds out he was the reason for your death, he could probably never live with his self. But thats not you want, you want him to know your fine without him. Because you will be happy soon, life goes on, and it wont hurt forever. Just stay strong. :)



Suicide is never the answer. Seriously. I've been there, I tried to hang myself. It seems great at the time, but it's not cool. Self harm is the lesser of the two. I'm not saying to self harm, just don't kill yourself! Please. Think of your friends and family. There are plenty of other fish in the sea.



NEVER. I went through a similar experience and thought why not. But you're young(I think) you have your whole life to live. Don't be one of them girls who cries over cheating men. be a strong, independent woman and trust me, they will be drooling over you! plus, it was long distance it was never gonna work (:



NO! Suicide is never the answer. Death will definitely not be anything like you imagine it to be. If there is life after life you go into it a failure at life.

Seek professional help; call 1-800-SUICIDE immediately if you ever have a plan for killing yourself. They will help you.

Good luck!

Life, which is sweet!



No suicide is never the way and you should just take a deep breath and calm down. if you need professional help than you can see a therapist or sycaligest i hope everything goes good for you and just remember never give up on anything especially life.



of course someone out there cares, but no matter what and this might seem stupid right now suicide is not the solution...then what? he goes back to her, flirts with her, you die, they win? i bet a hyper-sensitive and emotional girl like you will find someone that would take care of her much...xoxo don't worry



I'd be lying if I told you I didn't consider it . I've had some real bad health issues including a stroke . I have had 8 surgeries in the last 2 years. The pain hurts , bad . But , I like to think God will never give me mote than I can handle . I won't quit . As long as I have the Lord and my kitty , life is good .



No

You should not kill yourself because someone is inconsiderate, not loyal, and not loving.

Sooooo many people would and do care about you and your situation.

Don't let some mean boy bring you down, you're probably too good for him anyway



you need to get help suicide is not worth it DO NOT DO IT don't do it it is not worth it. go see a doctor they can put you on meds. that will make you feel better they work i take them



yes honey
suicide is always the answer
cause you would die for him and he probably wouldnt even care
stop being a drama queen and love yourself more



Nononononononononononononoooooo.
Absolutely not.
Some stupid boy shouldn't make you kill yourself. There's someone out there who's actually good for you, and isn't an idiot, trust me.



NO-dont commit suicide-it is not the answer, deal with your problems head on
I think you should forget about this boyfriend-he's obviously not worth it



Suicide is NEVER the answer, no one is worth that much...Flirting is harmless as long as it does not go any further than that...Try it.



hiya

no, suicide is never the answer however hard things get

and stuff boys/men! all they do is make our lives hell

we love em, split they move on and were left picking up the pieces

all the best x



You sound just like my ex girlfriend and her name was sarah 2. But no suicide is not the answer



No suicide is not the answer believe me try and talk to sum1 new ok



Are you playing?... seriously if you are... you need help...

and if your not... will first of all admitting your issue is a first, second is seeking help.



No suicide is never the answer.



no. im not gonna say more than that cause its just no.



NOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOO! Cause i love you.




The consumer health information on answer-health.com is for informational purposes only and is not a substitute for medical advice or treatment for any medical conditions.
The answer content post by the user, if contains the copyright content please contact us, we will immediately remove it.
Copyright © 2007-2011 answer-health.com -   Terms of Use -   Contact us

Health Categories