Psychiatrists and people say that i should never think wrong about any person an!

being positive and keeping your soul free of hate is not to say you can't say no!

Just because someone asks you for money REGARDLESS of who it is, doesn't mean you will give it to them because what are they doing asking YOU for money in the first place. The rule when it comes to 'lending' money to someone is to only give this money if you can live without it.

Same applies when lending your things. Just because you don't hate the person doesn't mean you have to lend them your stuff! Unless they have proven to be trusted friend/family, you shouldn't let people borrow your things.

These actions does not make you a negative person, it makes you responsible and respected.

As for being helpful, you can do that by giving advice, not money or your possessions.

no u do not let people walk all over u ==in fact ever wether family members or not ..
get rid of these so called friends ==they are just users takers ..sponging off u ...
look for the qualities that make for good friends like
honesty
caring natures etc
join new hobby clubs make new friends
do some voluntary work

Spiritual healing ,Seichim and Reiki healing
This is the application of spiritual energies to the effect of helping people on all levels of their being .
That includes
Your mental well being
Your emotional well being
Your physical well being
Your spiritual well being .
There are millions of these therapists around the world and people travel from far and wide to them .Billions of people have been helped from these therapies .

And like all therapists there are good and not so good and some specialise in certain conditions like the physical and some do the mental etc .It is important to find the therapist which suits your complaint .
But you must bear this in mind all healing comes under what is known as spiritual law =you will be healed to the extent that you have earnt .ie your karma –the reaping and sowing of all deeds done 0ften from past lives .And what you are doing for the service of others in this life .
Thus you may easily two people with the same complaint go for healing and only one of them gets healed .which is why voluntary work is vital for your healing.

You must Find good therapists in your area /and a good spiritualist church who often give their services for free as an offering to the divine .

All you do is usually sit down in a comfortable chair and relax and think good loving thoughts –the healer may or may not place their hands upon you .That depends on how they are working .

You can even put your names healing books where believe it or not healing is sent to you by thought and that can be very powerful as well.


Spiritual healing -- study the healing of harry edwards google search

Harry Edwards recalled the case of a young man who, accompanied by a lady, was brought to me for healing. He was in great pain and eaten-up with arthritis. As the healing proceeded, so his pains left him, and his joints began to loosen and become free. When I had finished treating him, it was a real delight to see how wonderfully glad he was to be able to use his legs, feet, arms and hands again... and then he told me: "When I came here, I was convinced no one could help me, and I came only to please my Aunt, who brought me."

You worked a miracle with his father when he was very ill 1983-84 when I wrote to you, but you will be pleased to know he is now working for the Council and lives a fairly normal life.

I's report is complete - he is 100% fit and will have no trouble in resuming his sporting activities -considering the first reports, this is a miracle. I do not know how I would have managed without your wonderful help.

You and the late Harry Edwards helped me so often and indeed I am still pressing on 18 years after I was expected to die from my last bout of cancer.

I wrote to ask for healing for my sister who was to undergo an operation for aneurysm in the aorta. Her operation was very successful. After 1 day in intensive care and 2 days in progressive care she was back in her own room and has done extremely well. She was allowed home after 7 days when she had been told to expect to be in hospital for 10 to 15 days. Everyone was amazed at her recovery and the surgeon told her she had been a perfect patient. I feel sure the absent healing and our prayers were to a great extent responsible for this wonderful recovery and I thank you most sincerely for your help.

I thought perhaps you would like to have a record of the people you have helped during the time I have been sending reports. M.L. -angina, complete recovery. D. L. -duodenal ulcer, complete healing. B.L. - Angina, complete recovery. P.D. - Leukaemia - apparent full recovery.

On behalf of my mother, daughter and myself may I thank you for the lovely day at your Sanctuary last Tuesday. My mother is so much better it is truly amazing. She can stretch out her arms and even raise them to her head and her walking is much stronger. My daughter was very impressed, too. 1141/6

Get the spiritual healing /reiki in place asap

And remember this

Voluntary work for you is a very good idea especially when u consider this principle

,.all our healing and happiness - yours and mine is linked right alongside our efforts and contribution to others.in direct proportion to the help we give others

ie your healing comes with helping others =so if people are doing very little in helping others ---they suffer more and longer...and if they are doing a lot they get well faster...

.so now you know what to do ,,and like a lot of us are already doing being of service.

Do not even dream of healing to come to you if you are doing wrongful acts , wrongful words , wrongful thoughts. All you are doing is making more of a burden for yourself

1 hour a day will make a difference to you and to others

It honestly sounds like there is "more to the story" in most of these cases. However, I will give you the benefit of the doubt. With that said, you have the right to decide what to do with your own possessions. Unfortunately, many in today's world look for ways to get ahead even if it means leaving others behind. Giving your friends money when they asked for help was your decision, whether your best judgment was involved or not. It shows your true character to be so charitable and theirs also in their betrayal of your trust.
When it comes to people taking away your things however without your permission however, that is called stealing and that is not right. Your psychiatrist would agree here. Yet, what they are saying about remaining positive is very true. In every situation there is always two ways you can deal with something. In a positive way or a negative way. From your perspective, some of your family and friends are treating you in a negative way. A calm and peaceful demeanor may very well help your situation if you wish to talk to them about what they have done. Perhaps it would give them a chance to explain their side of the situation to help you understand also.

In the end, if everybody treated everyone else in an up building positive manor, we would not have many of the problems we have in our world. Though you may see those around you acting negatively, take the step in the right direction and always see the bright side of things. Even if you are left with nothing except your positive outlook, you will be happier then most people on earth who have everything.

You're right to be generous, especially towards friends and family as they are very important. However they appear to be betraying your trust. The next time they ask you for something you should remind them how they've treated you in the past and use that as a reason to not be so generous from now on.

A psychiatrist's view that you should have a positive outlook is healthy and it is good that you are following their advice. Psychiatrists are well aware how unreliable other people can be and he/she is not trying to make you make mistakes. They are making sure that you give people the benefit of the doubt and to give people a chance. They basically don't want you to jump to conclusions that all people are horrible.