How should I retrain myself to have healthier sexual turn ons?!

Question: How should I retrain myself to have healthier sexual turn ons?

Over the years I have accumulated a large number of degrading and humiliating sexual turns ons. Humiliation is my greatest turn on and this is all that ever turns me on now. I can not achieve an erection through "normal" sexual stimuli. Needless to say I'm become quite the loser and I am not able to date or attract or even converse with women normally. How can I change so that I can be more confident and more successful in the future in this department. (I'm quite young)

Answers:

Broaden your senses,
If you are young I may presume that you got this turn on from porn (sorry if I'm wrong, I don't mean offence)
A known technique for changing your turn ons is by experiencing something during orgasm.
For example, there was this one woman who's partner accidently pulled her hair while she achieved climax, afterwards she found it really turned her on.
This is because the brain now see's that as a pleasurable experience.
But you should know that humiliation is a recognised turn on, and is linked to dominatrix fantasies, nothing at all to be ashamed of.
Your young and have a lot of sexual growth to go through yet, it may just go away on it's own.

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