I feel so ugly and it's controlling my life. How do I stop?!


Question: I feel so ugly and it's controlling my life. How do I stop?
I have voliminous, wavy hair which is just ugly and horrid. There is no way to make my hair look attractive. To make things worse, I got a haircut today, and the lady cut it shorter than I wanted, and now I look like a poof head. There is also something boyish about the way she cut my hair. Also, I have pale skin, dark cicles, acne problems on my back/shoulders (which limits what clothes I can wear), and one of my eyelids droops lower than the other. I'm always breaking out, and my eyebrows are super thin which makes me look stupid, but when I grow them thick they are as bad. My face is just overall unpleasing to look at. I have an ugly, masculine jaw and small breasts, a wide body, but no curves. There is not one thing I like about the way I look. I look at girls who are prettier than me and it makes me want to die realizing that I can never be as good-looking as them no matter what I do or how badly I want it. I'm not motivated to do anything! Hobbies, schoolwork, responsibilities... I'm just always in a bad mood and never confident about anything. I never pursue new things or try to make friends because I want to do nothing but stay crawled up in my room to hide my ugliness. I feel like I will never find love and no one will ever be attracted to me. There are so many things I won't get to experience because of the way I look. My life is falling apart and I'm becoming lazy about everything, but I don't know how to change my outlook.

Answers:

Jeez, you just explained something from a horror movie. J/K

Look, I can sit here and tell you there, there everything will be alright but I would be lying, I may be many things but dumb isn't one of them!

How about making some life changes? Instead of wallowing in your own pity you get up and do something about your life.
1) Exercise to bring out those curves and it helps promote great looking skin
2) Aim to complete your education and set high standards for jobs. SO instead of being pretty you can be the boss that makes that pretty girl go get your coffee! In our society power and money = beauty.
3) DO some community service, help people, and get a great hobby! If someone is ugly and they excel at something people want to be around them!
4) Get things accomplished! The more accomplishments you have the more confidence you will have
5) Eat healthy! Eating healthy will put you in a good mood and you I am sure it will give you good looking skin.

Don't just cry about your life get up and change it.



You shouldn't judge yourself like that. Everyone is beautiful and I'm sure you're beautiful too. Don't ever call yourself ugly, don't ever think there's no way to fix something.

If you want to get rid of acne on your back and shoulders buy -Neutrogena Body Clear "Body Wash"
If you're breaking out on your face try Nivea "face wash", "toner", and "face lotion", they work great!
You can always grow your eyebrows back and get them professionally done at the mall.
You in time will get curves and breast. You will one day see how beautiful you are. It takes the inside to realize it first, without realizing it on the inside, you will not see the true beauty that you are. Be confident, it's the best way to get through life. Be more out there, make a statement, that every girl is a beautiful person.




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