is it wrong to feel this way?!


Question: Is it wrong to feel this way?
when i was younger me my dad and my brothers and sister {2 brothers 1 sister at the time} lived with my dad then he got married slowly i notices her weeding out his kids my oldest brother who is not included in the head count above was told by our "step mother" that my dad was not his real dad after him thinking he was for 16 years my opinion on that is it was wrong for her to tell him that. she got my brothers kicked out they were 13 and 14 both moved out the same day while me and my sister and step sister were out at the movies with our cousins few years later i was kicked out at the age 13 my younger sister stayed the marriage failed and then they got divorced they started talking again few months down the road they started to talk again they got back together then my sister at the age 13 was kicked out... my dad just found out recently that for the last 2 years she has been cheating on him me my brother and sisters all tried telling him when we were younger that she lied about things we did and got us beat and grounded for things we didn't do.. he is just now figuring out we were telling the truth when she lied and said he hit her and beat her. she called the cops but she waited 3 hours to do it. she ied i have a feeling i know hedidn'tt do it

i do not feel sorry for my dad at all he is heart broken finding out he lost all his kids to leis finding out his so called wife cheated on him for two years he lost his job and unemployment denied him

i still feel hurt and don't want anything to do with him is this wrong
please help me before i go crazy

Answers:

I think he feels regret in the biggest way... He was fooled by this woman that most likely has been going out with other married men wrecking their marriages too, and having other children of other families tossed out at very early ages... It's women like these that create homeless children on the street.

The world would be better off if these women never existed. I think your father now has come to realize that there are a lot of cruel people in this world and he is better off without her. Right now your father is licking his wounds and it would be nice if you and your siblings coming together and communicating about other people and what to watch out for in the future so no one else tries to tear apart your family again.

I really think your father needs you and your family the most at this moment, and to avoid him and not love him will hurt him beyond repair. This is the time to try and get close again.

Good Luck




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