What is wrong with me? I have become very attached to my ex-supervisor who treat!
Question: What is wrong with me? I have become very attached to my ex-supervisor who treated me badly?
Even though he is really cruel to me. I really feel so sad that he doesn't like me and even though I have now left the job I try to be friends with him, but he is such an angry person. For some reason that makes me like him more. I feel so screwed up. I was abused as a child and I worry that this is some bad attachment problem from my childhood. I am almost obsessed with this guy and what he thinks about me and I am distraught and suicidal over the fact that he doesn't like me and liked everyone else at our work besides me. I was his intern and was about 25 and he was 40 when we worked together and he dated the other interns, but ignored me. I didn't want to date him, but I just wanted him to recognise me as a person. I was there for six months and he gave me no work, I just got work from other interns. I felt invisible and now because of that I am somehow obsessed with him.
Answers:
Sara, forget this guys, there is too many guys that will love to be with you and help you to forget what had happened in the past.
Life is just giving you a good reason to fight for the good way out, if you find it, you will be happy and forget all this problems and bad remembers.
You need to go out with other guys, text people, call people, try to forget that guy and understand that he is not for you and how bad person or cruel was for you.
I'm here if you want to talk or chat :)
You look up to him.