How do I deal with hating myself and feeling depressed?!


Question: How do I deal with hating myself and feeling depressed?
Ughh, lately I just have no motivation.
I'm a 15 year old girl.
I have only 2 or 3 friends, and they're so much fun but I can only hang out with them ONCE IN A WHILE because I have such a strict mother.
My mother is another reason for my depression, actually, she's always screaming and yelling and fights with me like a teenager. She thinks she's right about everything , and she's annoying and so strict when it comes to letting me do things out of school. I hate her.
I had long,beautiful blonde hair but I made the mistake of cutting it like 2 weeks ago, it's not super short but it's medium length now and I just hate it.
I get headaches EVERYDAY, and its so painful and the most uncomfortable thing you can imagine. My mother doesn't allow me to take tylonol anymore and all she says is "drink water." wow, yeah like that's going to ******* help.
Shes also been putting this insane stress on me about school lately and causing so many problems for me.
Seriously? I don't need her on my *** 24/7 about assignments.
And then,,,, the guy I like , I'm having problems with too. I don't even want to get into that.
But my biggest problem is acne scars.
I have acne scars on my chin, and forehead.
Alot of them.
In sept, they started to clear up alot but like a month ago out of no where it just erupted and got so much worse .
I use foundation and concealer, but some scars are just too deep and eventually throughout the day , my face gets oily and greasy :(((( also, my eye makeup always looks shitty.
I JUST DONT EVEN KNOW WHAT TO DO. I FEEL LIKE **** ALL THE TIME I HAVE NO MOTIVATION I HAVE NOTHING TO LOOK FORWARD TOO, PLEASE HELP ME.

I'd be one of the prettiest girls in school if it wasn't for my acne.

Answers:

Okay, first...your mom is being a total ***** for not letting you take Tylonol??? WTF? Well...for the foundation, try using those clean and clear oil strips that take the oil off ur face, but keep the makeup on. :) Try that when your face gets oily during the day. Now, how does your eye makeup look ******? Too much eyeliner? Clumpy mascara? You can always change makeup. I'm very sorry about your mom. I have a very strict mom, and I get headaches almost every day too. (I'm 14). About your hair, the good thing is you don't have barbie hair, it'll grow back! :) I made the mistake of letting my friend cut my hair, and give me bangs. Well..I haven't had bangs like this since I was 5. It makes my face look about 20 pounds heavier. My MOM told me that "it makes my face look chubby". That is NOT what a teen girl needs to be told.....that she looks fat! I'm homeschooled, so I don't know what to say about school, other than pray to God to help you. And, the guy I like, oh hun....I got the SAME problems I bet you. The acne I would just deal with until your older and you can get maybe laser surgery to get rid of it? Tell your mom to just chill about school, and that her pressuring you about it makes it worse. (say it as lovingly as possible lol). And also let her know that drinking water does NOT help a headache, I get migranes ALL the time, and even strong pain meds can not help for a LONG time even. Drinking water does NOTHING! God bless you, and I'll pray for you!!



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You need a psychiatrist for meds and a therapist for counselling. Get help now or you will really pay as an adult!



same here i get really bad headaches and the guy i like thinks im ugly and i have too much acne:( but dont worry it will come out all right maybe just talk to some at school who dont live by you but dont think of suicide i did and i know it wouldnt be worth it so just keep trying :)

me



Well some of that is your average teenage blues, such as guys as make up, we all get that. However, your mother is clearly causing you to have some form of clinical depression, the physical effects like headaches are a sign of that. I think, if possible, you should try to seek out a doctor when your mother isn't around and have some decent anti-depressants perscribed to you, and keep them hidden from her. Then, when you feel better, target the source of the problem, and tell your mother if she keeps treating you the way she does, she is at risk of losing a child, and she may seem stony-faced at first, but if you act cold and show her how much of a shitter she puts on your life, she might just simmer down.




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