I have been picking on this kid for the past 3 years for no reason...whats wrong!


Question: I have been picking on this kid for the past 3 years for no reason...whats wrong with me?
I just like to pick on him, hes such a little nerd i just think its cool to pick on him. He has no friends and smells funny. But i really have no real motive from picking on him i just do it, people laugh maybe thats why. Is there anything really possibly mentally wrong with me?

Answers:

Frank, please please stop. Bullying those who are vulnerable and weak can cause terrible and long lasting damage to that individual.

It is human nature to a certain extent, to elevate yourself in your mates/peers eyes, and picking on others to get a laugh is an easy way to get this feeling. But to be honest, its a really cheap way to make yourself feel better at the expense of someone else.
I think also that deep down you know that this is wrong and your conscience is 'kicking in' - hence that's why you are posting on here.
If you cannot bring yourself to befriend this poor child, then at the very least leave him alone. How would you feel if you read tomorrow that he had committed suicide? This does happen an awful lot and its on the increase.
Be a decent human being Frank and this will ultimately make you a far far better person with a sense of self worth that will last a lifetime.



What's wrong with you:
-You're a sadist
-You have low self esteem and you feel like if you pick on someone who seems "inferior" to you you'll feel like a bigger, stronger person even though you're just making an *** of yourself.
-You're extremely selfish. You're only thinking about what could be wrong with you. You're picking on the poor kid just to feel better for yourself and you don't even care that you're probably causing him permanent damage...he might never be able to raise his self esteem again will probably always remember all the things you said to him. That could take him to horrible places in life...he could turn to drugs or alcohol...and there are even worse scenarios that I won't get into. Especially if he has no friends, you know that's hard enough. He doesn't need people like you picking on him.
-You could possibly be a psychopath.

Please stop bullying him and apologize. You don't want to be the type of person I've described...it'll get back to you.

Common sense as to how people think and why they do the things that they do...



no there is nothing wrong with you but you are a bully i wonder how that kid must feel when your picking on him he is probably shy just stop and think what would i feel like if some one was picking on me you would not like it would you so why do it say that he committed suicide then you would wish that you had not picked on him and you would have to live with that for the rest of your life just stop it now and remember how you would feel if someone was picking on you you are a bully so just stop and help him out and NO IT IS NOT COOL TO PICK ON HIM and so what if he has no friends and smells it is not his fault its probably be o and he probably likes to keep himself to himself and also SO WHAT IF HE IS NERDY just stop ok stop you would not like it so why do it i wonder what is going through his head right now he has no friends because he does not want to hang around with the bullys like you and your mates i dont find it funny you would not like it day in day out picking on him HAVE U GOT ANY THING BETTER TO DO THAN PICK ON KIDS your just sad little boy get some respect and stop acting all hard thinking your cool well i tell you something now YOUR NOT COOL YOU ARE JUST A BULLY AND YOUR WEAK U JUST WANT TO ACT COOL

bully bully bully bully bully bully you are also a COWARD



dude no offense but ur in peer pressure n u think ur kool picking on someone do u ever wonder how he feels after u pik on him sometimes ppl kill themselves or cut or watever stop piking him just 2 impress ppl pay it forward do sumthing 4 this kid be his friend u will be a better person n u will feel better

A Bully is always a coward. ‥Confront one of the silent heroes with the swaggerer of real life, and his confidence in the theory quickly vanishes. The old adage holds good: all bullies are cowards, and most cowards are bullies.



There might be nothing mentally wrong with you, but what about the kid? Have you thought what's going through his head? He probably has no friends because where he's being BULLIED by you no one wants to get involved and be bullied too. He probably smells funny because he has given up, doesn't care what people think because he'd get the piss taken anyway...It's not funny! You try being picked on every day, having no friends. You don't even know what his family life is like...what if it's the same as at school or where ever you are picking on him...Think of your actions. An apology goes a long way.



Your probably bulling him because you feel insecure yourself. You get a kick out of seeing someone in a weaker position than yourself and you get gratification from people cheering you on. I dont think your evil; however it is mean and uncalled for and needs to stop. Those kids who laugh along are just as bad and their behaviour needs to stop. Go find help for your insecurities and go apologize to the boy... I can't imagine how rubbish you have made him feel.



Hi...You are a bully, plain and simple. We had a case in a small town near here and high school kids were bullying this girl. They did not hit her, but sometimes mean words are more painful. She ended up committing suicide and now the three bullies are up on charges. Stop picking on the poor kid...



''whats wrong with me:'' your a jerk



yes, you are sadistic and enjoy hurting people




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