I'm so bored with my life, I need help/suggestions on how to make it better!


Question: I'm so bored with my life, I need help/suggestions on how to make it better.?
I work a full time job. 5 days a week, 8 hours a day. 3 pm to 11 pm. When I work.. I'm not so bored, but I'm also not happy because, well, I'm working! I WANT to take time off my job to enjoy life, but even if I did that, what would I do?

I'm 20 years old.. living at my boyfriend's mom's house with him and her. And I'm so bored. I'm extremely creative though, and I could think of a million things to do, but I don't feel so enthusiastic about anything. Maybe I'm depressed?
I could do arts and crafts (like finish my photo album I have of my boyfriend and I), put up pictures, write, walk my puppy, or hang out with family. But I don't really find much joy in doing these things. I feel like something is constantly going on in my head and there's too many options that I can't pick one, and it'd be boring anyway, even if I did. It could also be the town I live in. There's a lot of old people and STUPID people. Like literally low IQs. And there's not much to do here, so I dont know. I feel like I'm just stuck in a rut.

I don't have MANY friends, but I have some. Mostly since I work a full time job and have a full time relationship.

I don't know.. any suggestions? :(

Answers:

it sounds like you're an intelligent individual looking for something challenging to do that will have a reward in the end (goal).

you should try a couple of new things the next month and if there's one of those things you've tried that month (dancing, shotting, swimming, playing piano whatever!) then start doing that thing, but take it to the next level, don't just do it for fun, you have the intelligence, challenge yourself.

Good luck with it. i hope it helps.



Have you gone to college? If not, I suggest it, because these years are supposed to be the most fun-filled in your life.

Go Skydiving? that's an activity that you will never forget, believe me.

Go on a cruise, read a good book! Learn some new skills, maybe become skilled in cooking, or take up a hobby that doesn't require mundane tasks.



Spice things up ask your boyfriend to take you places there are tons of events always going on look in the paper, go to the store endulge a little.



I didnt read that whole thug but travel, learn a language, volunteer, or find a more fulfilling job.



just have fun



ok try lateral and creative thinking edward debono
try Spiritual healing ,Seichim and Reiki healing
This is the application of spiritual energies to the effect of helping people on all levels of their being .
That includes
Your mental well being
Your emotional well being
Your physical well being
Your spiritual well being .
There are millions of these therapists around the world and people travel from far and wide to them .Billions of people have been helped from these therapies .

And like all therapists there are good and not so good and some specialise in certain conditions like the physical and some do the mental etc .It is important to find the therapist which suits your complaint .
But you must bear this in mind all healing comes under what is known as spiritual law =you will be healed to the extent that you have earnt .ie your karma –the reaping and sowing of all deeds done 0ften from past lives .And what you are doing for the service of others in this life .
Thus you may easily two people with the same complaint go for healing and only one of them gets healed .which is why voluntary work is vital for your healing.

You must Find good therapists in your area /and a good spiritualist church who often give their services for free as an offering to the divine .

All you do is usually sit down in a comfortable chair and relax and think good loving thoughts –the healer may or may not place their hands upon you .That depends on how they are working .

You can even put your names healing books where believe it or not healing is sent to you by thought and that can be very powerful as well.


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