I think I did the right thing, but I need to hear it from someone else right now!

Question: I think I did the right thing, but I need to hear it from someone else right now, because I'm feeling Shitty?

9 months ago my gay lover moved in with me. two months into the relationship he decided to go straight and began daiting my best female friend and cut me off. he stayed living with me. I wanted to keep the friendship eventhough it was verry hard on me.he went to work with me one night but quit that night. he's lied to me he has stolen from me and even forged one of my checks to himself. he got a job this week and said it was going well. night before last he came home and said the line went down and everyone was sent home. Last night wile he was suposivly at work Human Resorse called looking for him to inform him he was fired. I told him he couldnt keep a job because he didnt want to. That he is a free loader and that he wasnt going to free load off me anymore. I told him to pack his things and I would take him where ever he needed to go, but he wasnt staying here. I'm feeling like the shitty friend now! I think I caried him long enough. Did I do wrong asking him to go? feel like I did.

Answers:

Slow down and read what you wrote. Are you seriously thinking you are the shitty friend. First of all are you living your life the way you want? It doesn't sound it. Get rid of that person and never ever speak to him again. He is a toxic human waste you may care but you are caring about someone who doesn't give a crap about you. In this life we only get one shot is that the person you want to put your shot on/with. What ever kind of manipultion this man has done to you, you need to think about it snap out of it. Get him the Hell out of your life immediatly. The way you tell it it sounds insane that you have not whipped up on his ***. Be smart be the star of your life not a punching bag for a fake guy. Remember when you were young and a happy an exciting moment from your past, go live that way again be happy and get away from the mucky funk you are in. Be smart you deserve better then that BS.

you definitely did the right thing! don't feel like this anymore your not a bad friend. he took advantage of you and your friendly nature. and has he even said sorry? if not then your definitely better without him in your life at all!

He was a douche, he had it coming. You shoulda burnt all of his belongings too, the way I see it.

no you did the rite thing,i would have made him leave long before

I don't have much to say, since the others have said it all.

I just have one thing to say though.

After reading whatever you have written. You still consider him a "friend" ?

1. He cheated on you.
2. Ditch you alone at your work
3. Lied.
4. Stolen and use your money.
5. Going well with work ? I think its a lie again.
6. Lied again. Fired.
7. Expect to have sympathy and free-load ?

Well yeah, basically your doing the right thing. His not even a real friend to begin with. His just taking advantage and using you. Just get rid of hypocrites like him. You deserve better. Your feeling bad just because you are still trying to cling on believing that he is a friend.

Move along brotha ! Move along :)

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