10 points! Please I really just need some help right now.?!


Question: 10 points! Please I really just need some help right now.?
I really need some help right now. I'm only 13. I don't know what I'm supposed to do anymore. I'm so sad all the time and I'm SO insecure. My only friend is this b**** who makes me feel like CRAP. She always puts me down and makes me feel bad about myself. She always tells me I'm a freak and a loser and I just copy her. She gets mad at me for no reason and judges everything I do. She also makes fun of me. I don't have to worry about her talking about me behind my back because she doesn't have a problem just saying crap about me to MY FACE. I can't hang out with anyone else because I go to this really small school so there's barely any people there. I cry SO MUCH. All the time. I've been really depressed lately and everything she does and everything she says makes it WORSE. I burn myself, on purpose. I don't even know why. Sometimes it just helps the pain go away, I guess. I know its unhealthy and all of you will just say "Get help!". I tried telling my mom but she didn't listen. She didn't believe me. I feel trapped and like I'll always be unhappy. What am I supposed to do?I have no one

Answers:

When I was in 7th grade, I had 1 or 2 friends and talked to no one. 8th grade was sorta the same.

In high school, I decided to become more outgoing and just be myself. I started to not care about what people said about me. I went from this quiet, ugly and nerdy kid to a fun, bubbly, outgoing girl who finally feels pretty and loved. I was still sorta quiet my freshman year, but this year (my sophomore year) I'm known as really hyper and fun. The main thing that made me change was the fact that I had this one friend who was always by my side and was crazy and loud. She didn't care what others thought of her and I loved her so much!! She brought me out my shell and that's what you need, a friend who can get rid of all your insecurities. Ditch the ***** and move on!! Try to make new friends and be outgoing! I know it's easier said than done, but it's possible.

As for the crying, cutting, and burning...this year I've been in your shoes. I had a huge mental breakdown 6 months ago and had to call my friend and have him talk me out of killing myself. It was the worst night of my life. I cut myself for the first time that day. I know how it feels to cut when your sad. All the mental pain goes away and turns into physical pain. It's a relief, in a sick way. I loved it. I just stopped cutting 2 months ago, but that doesn't mean I don't ever get the urge to. I wear a hair tie on my wrist and whenever I feel really sad (since I'm still not over the ordeal that happened 6 months ago), I just snap the rubber band once or twice on my arm. It's an alternate from cutting, until you stop all together. But during those 6th months, there wasn't a day that I went without crying myself to sleep. I felt alone and empty. It was the worst feeling and I will never wish it on anyone.

Just listen though. I promise it gets better. It'll take a while, but things do get better. I'm not crying anymore, I'm no longer sad or alone. I love life and I'm finally happy after everything I've gone through. Have faith that things will get better. They will I promise!!



Stop being friends with her that is an unhealthy relationship Although you say she is your only friend It sounds like you let her walk all over you so she knows there will be no councequences if she talks behind your back so that compells her to do that. Either have a heart to heart with her and tell her how she makes you feel or stop being friends with her she sounds like she is holding you back so maybe if you stop being friends with her you will make new ones that treat you with respect



the best way is to take this gal out of ur life. Think positvie and make frnz who have positive attitude towards u.just say: "hey, u were my best friend and all, but you keep degrading me and all and i just cant take it anymore. if u want to keep being my friend,then stop degrading me. if u dont want to b my friend, then just leave
me alone." that's what i would do.



Try talking with a school counselor or a pastor from your church. You would feel MUCH better just having someone to talk to and possibly getting advice that could help.




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